When you don't want to lend someone something, you can decline it in the following tactful way:
1.*EXPRESS GRATITUDE**:Express your gratitude to the other person for their trust and request from you.
2.*Explain why**:Be honest about why you can't lend something. You can mention that you need to use it, that you have lent it to someone else, or that the item is damaged.
3.*Propose an alternative**:Offer some alternatives, suggesting that they try other avenues or seek other help.
4.*Apologize**:Apologize for not being able to meet their needs and let them know that you didn't mean to say no.
5.*Leave room for the other person**:Let the other person know that you may be able to help them in other situations in the future.
Here are some examples of possible rejection words:
1."Thank you very much for trusting me, but I need to use this thing myself, so I may not be able to lend it to you this time. ”
2."I'm really sorry, I've already lent this to someone else, probably until he comes back. ”
3."I understand your needs, but this item is unfortunately a little damaged and I am in the process of repairing it. Otherwise, I would have lent it to you. ”
4."Thank you for asking me for help, but I probably won't be able to borrow you this. But I can help you think of some other options, or recommend some places where you can borrow similar items. ”
5."I'm sorry I couldn't help you this time, but if you need help in the future, feel free to let me know. ”
With these euphemistic refusals, you can clearly express your position without hurting the other person's feelings. At the same time, also respect the other person's feelings and let them know that your decision is for objective reasons and not a personal dislike for them.