"Hey, where are you? "I anxiously dialed my husband's **, and I urgently needed his explanation. "What's wrong? What happened? On the other end, my husband's voice looked a little nervous. "You know what? I bought 2 boxes of cherries the other day, and now there is only one box left, what about the other box? Have you moved? ”
I suppressed the anger in my heart and tried to keep my tone as calm as possible. "I don't know, I wasn't at home yesterday, how can I know? My husband's answer made me more and more confused. I wondered in my heart, could it be taken away by my mother-in-law? So, I immediately called my mother-in-law.
Mom, do you know where my box of cherries went? "I tried to make my tone as polite as possible. "Oh, that, I was at home yesterday, and I saw that the box of cherries was very good, so I gave it to my brother-in-law. My mother-in-law's answer stunned me. "What? You gave it away without my consent? I bought it to eat! ”
I was a little excited, and I couldn't hide the disappointment in my heart. "Oh, daughter-in-law, I know you like cherries very much, but I think that my brother-in-law likes it too, and besides, it's not convenient for them to buy it, so I'll ...... it"My mother-in-law's explanation made me feel a little helpless. I hung up **, and the grievances and dissatisfaction in my heart gradually came to my heart. I remember that during the Chinese New Year last year, my mother-in-law also took the gift I had prepared for my parents to my brother-in-law's house without my consent. This feeling of not being respected makes me feel very uncomfortable. I found my husband and told him about the grievances in my heart.
He hugged me and comforted, "Wife, I know you're angry because you feel wronged, but Mom, she may have good intentions." Let's communicate with Mom and let her know how you feel, so that this kind of thing won't happen in the future. Although I still feel a little uncomfortable in my heart, I also feel that it makes sense when I think of my husband's words.
In the evening, we sat together as a family, and I spoke my heart. After hearing this, the mother-in-law was full of guilt: "Daughter-in-law, I'm really sorry, I know it's wrong for me to give it away without your consent, and I will pay attention to it in the future." Looking at my mother-in-law's apologetic eyes, the grievances in my heart gradually dissipated. I know that in this family, respect and communication are the keys to solving problems. As long as we understand each other and operate with our hearts, even the most controversial issues can be resolved in a harmonious family relationship.