Language is our most widely used communication tool. But there are a lot of people who don't make good use of language. His words are always not heard, and because of this, he has a serious negative impact on his life and career. In order to improve the language communication skills of friends. I have specially summarized the following 16 taboos for language communication to share with friends.
1. Persuade a person who pursues fame, if you impress him with generous profits, you will be regarded as inferior and treated with low dignity, and you will inevitably be abandoned and alienated.
2. When persuading those who pursue high profits, if you use a noble reputation to persuade them, you will be considered to have no scheming, and it is divorced from reality, and your suggestions will not be adopted.
3. Treat those who are really pursuing good profits and superficially pursuing good fame, if you persuade him to achieve a noble reputation, he will adopt your opinions on the surface, but in fact alienate you;If you try to persuade him to make a big profit, he will actually adopt your ideas, but on the surface he will alienate you, and he will secretly agree with you.
4. You may not have received other people's secrets, but you have touched the secrets in other people's hearts during the conversation, which may put others in danger. At this time, others may be more wary of you.
5. Someone else has planned an extraordinary thing, and your opinion just caters to his wishes, at this time, if someone else speculates about it from external signs and leaks relevant information, then others will think that you leaked it.
6. If others do not have a deep relationship with you, but you know everything, if your advice is implemented and successful, the merit will be forgotten by others;If your suggestion doesn't work and fails, others will be suspicious of you, and you'll be in a situation where you don't be trusted.
7. If you only advocate benevolence, righteousness and morality to point out the faults of others, you will be hated by others.
8. Others sometimes scheming and doing things properly but want to monopolize merit, if you also mention such a scheme, you may be hated by others.
9. Forcing others to do what they can't do, forcing others to stop what they don't want to stop, and you will be bored by others.
10. If you talk to someone about someone else's friend, it will be seen as an attempt to break a wedge between themTalking to someone about some of their friends who are not as good as you are, and you will be seen as trying to sell your worth.
11. Talking about someone else likes will be seen as looking for someone else to be a backer.
12. Talking about someone who others dislike is seen as probing into someone's heart.
13. If you speak too bluntly, you will be regarded by others as a person who does not know how to be flexible;
14. If you speak in detail and detail, you will be regarded as a person who talks nonsense.
15. If you briefly state your opinion, you will be regarded as a cowardly person who does not dare to admonish;
16. If you consider things empty and laissez-faire, you will be regarded as rude and rude.
The above only represents my personal views, there are different opinions and additions, please leave a message in the comment area.