The drama "The First Half of My Life" tells the emotional entanglement between Luo Zijun and Lao Jin, allowing the audience to see the mental journey of a stay-at-home wife after encountering a marriage crisis. The encounter between Luo Zijun and Lao Jin seems to be a beautiful fate, however, this relationship is not as simple as it seems on the surface. Luo Zijun's abandonment of Lao Jin has many unknown reasons behind it. 
Luo Zijun, a former stay-at-home wife, lives a carefree life. The first half of her life was full of happiness and contentment, with a loving husband and a wonderful family. However, all this came to naught after a sudden marital crisis. Her husband's cheating made her lose everything she once had. She was forced to leave the comfort of her home and begin to face life's challenges on her own. At this difficult time, Lao Kim appeared in her life. Lao Jin is a down-to-earth and kind man, and he has given Luo Zijun a lot of help and support. Not only did he care about her in life, but he also helped her get a job again. Lao Jin's companionship and care allowed Luo Zijun to regain his confidence and courage and begin to re-examine his life. 
However, as time passed, Luo Zijun gradually discovered the incompatibility with Lao Jin. She began to realize that there were big differences between her and Lao Jin's life concepts and values. These differences gradually became apparent in daily life, making Luo Zijun begin to re-examine his relationship with Lao Jin. The 30,000 yuan coat was a turning point in their relationship. In Luo Zijun's view, the coat is not only a luxury, but also a symbol of the difference in values between her and Lao Jin. She believes that Lao Jin cannot understand her lifestyle and pursuits, and she is gradually unable to adapt to Lao Jin's living habits and way of thinking. This unbridgeable gap eventually led to their breakup. 
However, this is not the only reason why Luo Zijun abandoned Lao Jin. After experiencing her husband's betrayal and the twists and turns of life, Luo Zijun began to re-examine her values and life pursuits. She realized that the first half of her life had been wasted and that her life should not stop at family and marriage. She is eager to pursue her career and dreams, and to live independently and autonomously. And these pursuits and desires are contrary to Lao Jin's life concepts and values. At the same time, Luo Zijun also re-examined his outlook on love and marriage. She began to understand that love and marriage are not only about relying on each other and supporting each other, but also about growing and improving together. She longs to find a partner with whom she can grow and pursue higher heights together, rather than a man who only provides material satisfaction but cannot understand her inner world. 
These factors intertwined and eventually led to Luo Zijun's decision to leave Lao Jin. In her opinion, although the breakup with Lao Jin is painful, it is for a better future. She hopes to find a partner who can truly understand her, support her, and pursue a better life together. This story teaches us that the choices in life are not simply right or wrong, but require us to constantly examine ourselves, face difficulties bravely, and strive to pursue our dreams. Only in this way can we find happiness and fulfillment that truly belongs to us. In the process, we may lose something, but we will also gain more valuable experience and growth. As Luo Zijun experienced, although the first half of her life was tortuous and bumpy, it was these experiences that shaped her strong and independent character. In the days to come, she will continue to strive to pursue her dreams and values to make her life more fulfilling and exciting. 
In short, "The First Half of My Life" is not only an emotional drama, but also a story about growth and inspiration. It teaches us to cherish the present, to face the future bravely, and to pursue our dreams and values. In this rapidly changing world, we should always maintain a courageous heart and strive for our future.