Marriage is a big drama about dreams and reality. The TV series "The First Half of My Life" uses a real and heartbreaking story to pull us back to this moment that everyone may face - the turning point of marriage.
In this process of being slapped in the face by reality, we see the desolation of love, the ups and downs of marriage, and the exploration of women in real society. This article will deeply analyze the marriage relationship in this drama, interspersed with the marriage status of the real society, and take you to ** the choices and persistence of women in this era.
The ideals of marriage and the harsh reality
Luo Zijun, who was the ideal wife in our eyes, believed that "you are responsible for making money to support the family, and I am responsible for being beautiful like a flower", however, the cruelty of marriage came when she was unprepared. The children go to school, the family is well-off, and the husband has a successful career, such a life seems to be beautiful, but in fact it hides the fragility of marriage.
In the real world, how many women are experiencing a similar situation, between the persistence of marriage and the convenience of life, have they also lost themselves, thinking that wealth and appearance can withstand all the wind and rain. In the real world, more and more women choose to pursue careers and are no longer satisfied with being the silent support of their families.
The delicate balance of the marital relationship
Tang Jing is Zijun's confidant and another choice in marriage. She is not a full-time housewife, but chooses to work hard in the workplace and does not depend on her husband. Tang Jing used her independence to give Zijun some inspiration. Through the plot, we see that Tang Jing has not only the glory of the workplace, but also the initiative in marriage. She is not afraid of losing her marriage because she has her own life, and this independence also gives her more say in her marriage.
Women's choice and the change of the concept of marriage in the real society
In the mother's group, a mother said: "I have been working full-time for five years, first because I have children, and now because I feel that I am not suitable for the outside world, and I don't want to go out at home." This sentence reflects the choice that women make between career and family in real society, and the psychological struggles that this choice can bring.
The full-time wives who are over half a hundred years old also found their voices in the play. They either gave up their careers for the sake of their families, or they were reinvigorated after a failed marriage. Their choices may have been passive, but with the evolution of social concepts, they are also pursuing their own happiness and are no longer willing to be mediocre.
In-depth analysis of the relationship between the characters in the TV series
Luo Zijun: From a simple "responsible and beautiful woman" to a woman who was knocked down by the reality of marriage. Her choices make us reflect on whether traditional ideas still apply to modern women.
Tang Jing: A representative of the working woman, whose independence and autonomy have given a new definition to marriage. She does not agree with the "I raise you" concept of marriage, and she pursues more equality and respect in marriage.
Conclusion:
"The First Half of My Life" is not only a marriage drama, but also a deep reflection on contemporary women's choices and marriage concepts. In this era of being slapped in the face by reality, we need more understanding and respect, rather than being framed by preconceived notions. Marriage should be the cooperation of two independent individuals, not the commitment of one person to the whole family. Only in equality and respect can we find our own happiness.
At the same time, Tang Jing's independence and professional success have established a broader choice for modern women. She has not only achieved success in her career, but also maintained her independence in marriage. This new type of view of marriage is in stark contrast to the traditional division of roles outside the male protagonist and female protagonist.
The TV series is like a mirror, allowing us to see the diversity of marriage concepts in real society.
In the pursuit of happiness, people often have to face various choices and contradictions. Marriage is no longer the only destination in life, but one of many possibilities.
In this new era, women are no longer confined to the traditional family model. They can choose a career or a family. They have the right to determine the course of their lives and are not bound by society, family or marriage. Only in the respect of individual choices and the progress of social concepts can we usher in a more diverse and equal marriage relationship.