Did you find out? There was a "strange phenomenon" at the class reunion, and three types of people were on call
With the continuous development of society, the students who have been with us for many years have also begun to have their own careers and families. Compared with the complexity of today's society, the simple friendship between classmates is more nostalgic.
In order to continue this pure friendship, many people get together every year. Especially during the Spring Festival, everyone is on holiday, and it is also the best time for everyone to get together.
However, this year, many people have discovered a very strange phenomenon: when there is a meeting, some people come when they are called, and some people do not come no matter how they are invited.
01 These three kinds of people come and go freely.
1.People who value the friendship of their classmates.
Some people value camaraderie as purer and more impurity than false emotions in society. Therefore, every time there is a class reunion, they will actively participate in it to make themselves more nostalgic.
However, we are also here to pour cold water on them, maybe to go down the mountain for a meeting, maybe to let them see the cold of the world. They may cherish the memories of the past, but in the hearts of others, those past events have long been erased by time.
Many times, what we think of as human warmth and coldness can go through the passage of time, and what remains is just an accident, in which there are far fewer regrets about human warmth. So again, not everyone is worth looking back on, some people are destined to be just passers-by, and have nothing to do with youth.
2.People who live in abundance, have money and leisure.
As they grow older, some people also have their own careers and even achieve financial freedom. In this case, they have money and leisure, and once they receive an invitation to a class reunion, they will not hesitate to participate. After all, these people attend class reunions to pass the time.
Of course, it is not excluded that people with money and leisure attend the conference to show off. For example, we often hear people say:"Today's meeting is an exhibition of wealth on a grand scale"。
For example, if your partner is loving, you will show off your loving marriage; If you have a certain level of achievement, you will show off your considerable income; Even if you're too prominent, you'll take the opportunity to show off your rings, jewelry, or designer bags.
Vanity flies in the air, as if fleeting pleasure and appreciation are the highest state of life.
However, we would like to say that vanity is such a frivolous and deceitful thing, that those who receive it may not have any merit, and those who lose it may not have any sin. People are truly rich when they live in their own world, live an ordinary life, know their own warmth and coldness, share joys and sorrows, and enjoy themselves.
3.People who just like to socialize.
There are always people who like to be lively, **go when there are many people**. For those who are purely social, they are also especially willing to go to class reunions.
For them, meeting former colleagues who have left a season at a class reunion and having a better communication can even help them a lot in the future.
After all, today's society is very emotionally complex, and in such a complex environment, it's really comforting to be able to reminisce about the good old days.
But it also reminds us that the reality is very cruel: at the dinner table, everyone pushes cups and changes lamps, treating each other as brothers and sisters. Leaving the dinner table, the excitement will fade, and the so-called friendship will also fall silent, and no one is anyone's own.
The world of adults is no longer like in schools, where there is only emotional support, but the principle of equal arming. When you want others to help you, you must first weigh your own help points, otherwise, with an occasional get-together, it is just a fool's dream to achieve the further development of help.
02 Why don't these three kinds of people come?
1.People with busy jobs.
Obviously, for those who have a busy schedule, they don't have time to go to meetings, not because they don't want to, but more because time doesn't allow it.
For example, a person who works in the medical profession may be busy with several surgeries in the evening and may not be able to eat on time, let alone attend classes and meetings, and simply have no energy.
2.People who don't mix well.
For those students who have a bad relationship with their classmates and are unwilling to attend class reunions, we should know that class reunions are not purely for missing classmates, but more for showing and improving their connections.
If life itself is not easy, if you are looked down upon by your former classmates, your body and mind will be greatly affected, and you will even have feelings such as depression. So, these people can't go and don't go in order not to be harmed.
3.People who have a successful career and don't want to waste their time.
For those who have successful careers, they don't go to meetings because they don't understand each other, but more because: they don't talk more than half a sentence.
As director Yu Zheng said in a program at the time, he didn't accept class reunions very much, and even didn't go to three times when he received an invitation. Because he felt that even if he went, there was no common language.
After all, many years after graduation, students embark on different paths, including the fight in the business world, the struggle in the workplace, the baby at home, and the old man.
Honestly, people who really make a difference know exactly what they want and don't want to waste time at noisy parties.
Steve Jobs once said:"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life"。
In fact, a lot of people don't join not because they don't have the power of the group, they just don't want to waste their time in unnecessary groups.
Wan Zi Qianhong said: Every word of the article hits my heart, click"On the clock"and let me know that you are also working for life"Do your best"。