In the evening, when I was writing notes, I received a message from my son: he was going on a business trip to Shandong for a week, and he would leave at 9:00 p.m. with the general manager of the company.
My son has studied mechanical design and has not yet graduated, and is currently in his final year of internship at university. I didn't let him go to the place designated by the school, but came back and found an internship at a company near my home, which was selfish and wanted to keep him by my side.
Before marrying my husband, I was a single mother, and when my son was less than two years old, I ran away from home with my son because of the conflict between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and never went back.
I have always been sincerely afraid of raising my son over the years. I used to be afraid that I wouldn't be able to raise him, but then I was worried that I wouldn't be able to raise him well and mistook him. Therefore, the first consideration of every decision I make is: whether it is conducive to my son's growth.
About work. I am always cautious and hard working in the face of work, and I am afraid that I will lose my job if I am not able to do my job, resulting in no salary income and I cannot support my son.
When his son was 7 years old, he was a little unable to discipline his son because his parents were old. In order to be able to bring my son with me and earn money to support him, I ended my initial part-time job in Guangdong and started a business in Zhejiang.
About marriage. The failure of the marriage caused my son to lose a complete family and his father's love since he was a child, which made me feel a deep sense of guilt for my son.
I swear in my heart: I must do my best to raise him in this life and not let him suffer the slightest grievance. I once planned to take my son alone in this life and not marry anyone else.
However, it is difficult for a woman to start a business alone in a foreign country with her son. In order not to let my son be wronged, I used two conditions to screen out my current husband: can treat my son well; Give up having children after marriage. It doesn't matter if I like it or not.
About yourself. In order to set an example for my son, I have always been strict with myself and cautious in my words and deeds.
Work hard to manage your marriage and maintain the relationship with your husband. Because the marriage relationship between parents will subtly affect the future marriage model of children. I want to make him understand with my actions: each of us must take responsibility for the family and be faithful to the marriage.
At all times, we must maintain an upward vitality and never give up on ourselves. A person's life is not always smooth sailing, and no matter what difficulties they encounter, they should not give up easily.
Now, my son has finally grown up to be what I expected: to be grateful and motivated.
When the weather is cold, I know how to add clothes and keep my adoptive father warm; During the internship period, he was appreciated by the company's leaders and sent to other places for business trips to study and exercise. I, as a mother, feel very relieved that the heart that has been hanging in my life can finally let go of my ......