The reason is very simple: most of the so-called social resources of the second generation are not in their own hands at all, they are in the hands of old men and old women.
The second generation, especially the younger ones, are pure resource consumers themselves, let alone provide you with resources.
The family's social resources and wealth system recognize a generation rather than recognize him as the mainstream.
Even if the relationship with the second generation is particularly special, I can help you once or twice.
But this thing is a non-renewable resource, and if you use it once, you will not use it once, so you can't use it easily.
In addition, it can only be used as a talking point, which is far from "resources", and in the final analysis, it is actually an ineffective social interaction that seems to be lofty, but is actually a waste of time.
Therefore, many of the strategies for the second generation are fundamentally false propositions, especially in terms of marriage and love that emotional bloggers who have not seen much of the world, including many little girls who have fantasies about this, because they don't understand the real society, so they can only imagine relying on this set of leaps.
Of course, if you just make a little money, it may be no problem, but if you want to realize a large class leap or even take over the social resources and wealth system, it can only be said that it is a complete dream.
Especially under the economic reshuffle in recent years, the big money or the big brother has been exhausted, and the remaining players are extremely delicate + smart + highly educated egoistic rentiers.
The new wealthy class that has taken off by relying on the knowledge economy, or the older generation who have a long-lasting foundation, are all like ghosts, but anyone who is close to their own family members who rely on marriage and love to make a lot of money will immediately arouse alarm.
But when the second generation really grows up, it is difficult to establish a better personal relationship (familiarity and trust) at a certain age, which is also the biggest problem with this type of strategy.
So is this relationship really useful? Yes, the premise is that the second generation's own socialization is not bad, and the other is that you must reflect your own strength and value, and you can't hold the idea of letting the other party take you to fly or even fish each other.
This is the same logic as the investor's investment in the project: because the value of the investee is considered worth investing, not because the project party is short of money and needs help! We must stand in the perspective of demand and value, and we must not have the idea of seeking poverty alleviation or even making prostitutes for nothing!
It is more possible to study the needs or interests of the other party's home business and match reliable business opportunities.
In essence, it is still matching the old man's intentions and abilities, and he and you can only play a coordinating role, and honestly do things in place to win the old man's approval.
Of course, even this has high requirements for personal ability and chance, and the vast majority of the second generation are not people who do things, and whether the kinship relationship can be converted into a good relationship depends on the situation.
In the case of their own conditions and skills, it is impossible to directly establish a relationship with the generation, and the best strategy is to look at the right hand of the generation.
The cost of communication will also be much lower, and there is no need to delay time in the second generation who can't do things.
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