People often have filters for international students, but those who are interested will definitely observe that many international students are not satisfactory after returning to China, and even a group of them have very good family conditions.
Whether it is their work or subsequent development, they are far below the "due standard" marked by the word "international students", and the root cause is that the socialization of most young international students is unqualified, which is the root of the fall.
Especially for those who have a certain amount of social resources in the country, the whole family has no awareness of the integration of social resources, and does not know that only forming a strong link with this society on the benefit cycle is the only way to make themselves happy and meaningful.
They are still stuck at the level of the crude old peasant concept that getting a high diploma + turtle experience is enough to form a scarce competitiveness, which is essentially another version of the problem-solving thinking, or even worse.
At least people have been doing homework all the way to school, working for a few years, various fellow alumni industry relations have accumulated a little bit, and they have also grown a lot in socialization, and the economy has become independent.
On the other hand, many international students have nothing, except for the most superficial things in overseas society, that is, they have learned a bunch of useless theories, and then there are bad consumption or behavioral habits that are not beneficial but purely consumed.
For example, many international students so-called showing off cooking, in essence, is to cover up their incompetence and failure in socialization, that is, to avoid participating in economic activities, or to linger in vocal activities but still think that they are very capable of living.
As for the so-called studies, not to mention, it can only be said that the old peasants who went abroad are just old peasants who have changed places, and they take the so-and-so school exam and so-and-so test score seriously.
They don't know what the real power is, and they don't know how to consciously use and improve the use of these powers, and no one in the family or social circle understands this kind of non-public secret knowledge, let alone uses it.
Among them, a considerable number of people's cognition of this kind of thing stays in "finding a job with family relationships", not to mention integration and collusion and realization, especially the second generation above a certain level in the system.
However, many of these families have also inherited their ignorance of wealth accumulation, resulting in the option of returning to China to find a relationship and get a job.
In addition, there are many second-generation business executives or second-generation enterprises, and the companies where their families work are in a difficult situation under the counter-cyclical situation, resulting in serious impact on cash flow and even interruption of supply for studying abroad.
Their consumption budgets plummeted all of a sudden, forcing many of them to start socializing, but in general their situation is a little better than that of the second generation of the system.
As long as they can complete socialization and effectively inherit the part of social resources that their families can inherit, this will not be the case.
As long as they can complete socialization, understand the rules of the game in domestic society, and are intoxicated with energy, they will not be like this.
As long as they can complete socialization and design a legal and compliant way to make money as much as possible, this will not be the case.
Unqualified socialization is the root of all evil for the unhappiness of these international students, and nothing else.
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