He is the second oldest in the family, with a 43-year-old sister and a 38-year-old brother.
My parents were farmers when they were young, but my generation just caught up with family planning.
In order to have a boy, my parents secretly sent me to a relative's house, and then gave birth to a younger brother, and as a result, I paid a fine.
I didn't get a hukou until I was in school.
Later, we moved to the county seat, where my father worked in a steel mill and my mother worked in a fertilizer factory.
Both parents work, and family life is okay.
My siblings and I both did well in our studies, but my mother was more partial to my younger brother and was reluctant to send my sister and me to college.
As a result, my sister and I only got a high school diploma, while my younger brother was different.
My mother doted on my younger brother, but she did excel in her studies, and later was admitted to a 211 university and stayed in the field after graduation.
The younger brother and daughter-in-law are locals, the family conditions are also good, she is an only daughter, she is beautiful, she speaks beautifully, and her mother is very fond of her.
The younger brother got married and bought a house, all of which were financed by his parents.
After getting married, my younger brother was often busy and rarely came home.
I usually go to my brother-in-law's house during the New Year's holidays.
Sometimes parents also say that this son was raised for nothing.
My sister and I both married in the county seat.
My brother-in-law opened a shop in our local area that sells fire, and he is very famous.
My husband's family runs a supermarket and lives a good life.
My sister and I are close to our parents, and whenever we have time, we often visit our parents' house.
Parents are entitled to a pension when they retire.
The father gets more than 3,000 yuan a month, and the mother almost 2,000 yuan a month.
My mother used to work in a fertilizer factory, and although the factory was disbanded, the factory manager had solved the problem of pension insurance for the workers.
Later, the mother's pension was paid by herself, although the amount was not much, but the daily expenses were still fine.
I thought that my parents would be able to spend their old age in peace, and their lives were not bad, carefree.
However, his father suddenly fell ill and died in less than a year, leaving his mother alone.
When my father died, my brother and sister-in-law only stayed at home for two days, and after taking care of my father's funeral, I left with my sister and I to share the funeral expenses with him.
After his father died, his mother lived alone.
Until 6 years ago, my mother accidentally fell down when she got up late at night to pour water and injured her leg.
She stayed in the hospital for more than a month before she was discharged.
During my mother's hospitalization, my sister and I took turns taking care of her, while my brother only called two ** and didn't even come back to visit.
Mother always said that my brother was busy and couldn't leave.
After my mother was discharged from the hospital, my sister and I decided to take turns to take her to our home for a year in order to stop her living alone.
My mother usually went out to play cards or take a walk in the park when she had nothing to do.
After living there for a while, she began to clamoring to go to her brother's side.
But the younger brother always said that he was busy and did not agree to let his mother go.
His mother was angry because of this, and muttered behind her back, she really raised him for nothing! We know in our hearts that despite the complaints, the mother still cares about her son.
After living at her sister's house for more than half a year, her mother decided to sell her old house.
Originally, my parents' house was not big, and in our place, the house price was not high.
But even so, it can sell for more than 400,000.
My sister and I would have disagreed with her selling the house now.
But my mother said, "It doesn't matter if you keep it, I won't live there anyway."
And you've already arranged for me for the rest of my life! In this way, the mother still sold the old house.
The mother deposited the money from the sale of the house into a fixed deposit certificate.
The mother also said that whoever will give more money in the future will be filial.
In fact, as a child, taking care of your parents is a matter of course, not measured by money.
My mother managed the money herself, and my sister and I never asked.
During the Chinese New Year this year, my younger brother called ** in advance and said that he was going home for the New Year.
It was my turn to receive my mother.
After my mother received my brother's **, I didn't sleep well for several days.
She also said that she should prepare red envelopes early, because it is rare for her eldest grandson to come back.
In previous years, she used to go to the bank to transfer money by herself.
I suggested using WeChat to transfer money to her, but she didn't agree.
This made me understand why she had to go to the bank in person every year to remit the New Year's money.
It's not a big deal, but it makes me feel quite aggrieved.
My sister and I have been taking care of her like this, but my brother and sister-in-law have ignored her for several years.
But in her heart, her brother will always be the best child! I thought about it for two days and two nights, and I wanted to tell my sister about it, but I was still hesitant and didn't say it yet.
At this time, the younger brother and sister-in-law came back with their children for the New Year.
I knew it wouldn't be easy to come back, so I prepared New Year's goods, and my sister also prepared a lot.
Let's not talk about it yet.
However, last night I overheard my mother calling my brother again, to the effect that my brother was going to change to a bigger house, and my mother promised to use the money from the sale of the old house to help my brother buy a new house.
I felt that my mother had gone too far, and I was very panicked.
Should I tell my sister?