It is said that "husband and wife are birds of the same forest", and the experience of Mrs. Liu, who lives in Jinniu District, Chengdu, is amazing. She lived with her remarried husband for 34 years, but she did not expect to be betrayed by her husband on her deathbed.
Not only does he want to end this marriage, but he also wants to destroy the "nest" they built together.
Title: The octogenarian insisted on divorce, and his wife collapsed and cried Text: The octogenarian Lai Chunnan insisted on divorcing his wife Mrs. Liu, who had been with him for many years, after a sudden cerebral infarction, with an indifferent attitude.
Mrs. Liu didn't understand why, and after the divorce verdict came down, she realized that this was just the beginning of a nightmare. In the courtroom, Lai Chunnan said something that surprised everyone, especially Mrs. Liu, whose eyes revealed deep pain.
However, in the face of Mrs. Liu's crying, Lai Chunnan was indifferent, and her indifferent attitude made people feel chilled. Due to Lai Chunnan's insistence, the court ruled that the two were divorced, ending the marriage of the elderly man.
Mrs. Liu looked at the divorce judgment in her hand, and her tears couldn't stop flowing. She couldn't understand why her once-dependent husband had become like this, and a divorce decree made their 34-year marriage so ironic.
Mrs. Liu and Lai Chunnan met in 1985 through a matchmaker, both widowed adults with two children, and they became husband and wife in less than half a year.
Since the four children on both sides have grown up and can live independently, there is no longer much need for the two elderly people to worry too much. When they met, they were parents with two children, and there was no vigorous love story before and after marriage, just hoping to find a partner who could rely on each other and accompany each other.
However, life always inadvertently changes people's trajectories, and the ending of this marriage is embarrassing.
Married life seems to be less passionate and more of a companionship. The children have grown up and left, leaving two elderly people who are old, often walking and dancing hand in hand.
Mrs. Liu believes that this is her dream of living in her old age, and her wish is very simple, that is, to be able to spend the rest of her life in peace and tranquility. Lai Chunnan's physical condition is deteriorating, and he is inseparable from Mrs. Liu's careful care.
Despite this, Mrs. Liu never had half a word of complaint, and always took care of him relentlessly. Even the neighbors in the neighborhood praised her: "If she hadn't taken care of you, you might not have lived until now." ”
It may sound harsh, but it's true.
Lai Chunnan has been a weak and sickly child since he was born, and he would have a cold and fever almost every week when he was a child, and he suffered from illness at a young age. As an adult, his physical condition deteriorated, suffering from a variety of diseases such as Meniere's disease, cerebral infarction and gastrointestinal hemorrhage.
Whenever he was unwell, Mrs. Liu was busy taking care of him. Although Lai Chunnan is not good at expressing gratitude, he is deeply grateful to Mrs. Liu for her care.
However, this gratitude changed after Lai Chunnan suffered a cerebral infarction in May 2018. At noon that day, after Mrs. Liu cooked the meal, she was about to send it to Lai Chunnan, who was hospitalized, but found that he had already been fed by someone, that is, his eldest daughter Lai Mingxia, whom he had not seen for many years.
Lai Mingxia began to take serious care of her father in the hospital, and when he could be discharged from the hospital, she took him back to her home on the grounds of filial piety. As children, it is our responsibility and obligation to take care of our sick parents, and Lai Mingxia's decision is understandable.
But she didn't let Mrs. Liu go to her house to visit her father, and even prevented Lai Chunnan from picking up Mrs. Liu's **, which complicated the situation. Two weeks later, Mrs. Liu finally contacted Ms. Lai, but his attitude towards Mrs. Liu was surprisingly cold.
After that, Lai Chunnan refused to pick up Mrs. Liu's **, and Lai Mingxia did not let her father pick up **.
Lai Chunnan, who has not been able to contact for a long time, makes Mrs. Liu feel anxious. When she was going to visit Lai Chunnan despite Lai Mingxia's objections, she received a court summons stating that Lai Chunnan and her divorce judgment were heard.
Although Lai Chunnan was admitted to the hospital for cerebral infarction in December 2018, and her marriage with Mrs. Liu was about to break down after less than half a year, Mrs. Liu resolutely defended this marriage.
The court held that the two elderly people were old and there was still the possibility of repairing their relationship, so they did not divorce.
Although Lai Chunnan and Mrs. Liu barely maintained their marital relationship, the idea of divorce always existed in his heart. Half a year later, he filed for divorce as he wished, and although Mrs. Liu was immersed in a huge change and could not extricate herself, a bigger blow came one after another - Lai Chunnan died only 20 days after the divorce, and his vow in court became a reality.
Even though Lai Chunnan has been cold and ruthless to her for more than a year, after all, the two have lived together for 34 years, and Mrs. Liu's heart is full of sadness and endless emotion. Lai Chunnan's mourning hall is located in their home, and although the divorce judgment has been issued, the property has not yet been divided.
Lai Chunnan's sudden death put the division of property on hold for the time being, and Mrs. Liu still lives in that old house. After Lai Chunnan died, Mrs. Liu entrusted lawyer Qiu Wenfeng, who had helped her in the divorce lawsuit, to continue to handle the division of property.
They don't have much property in common, Lai Chunnan has been sick for a long time, and the children have already started a family, so they haven't saved much money. The only thing that has some value is the house where I live now.
Neither Mrs. Liu nor Qiu Wenfeng expected that Lai Chunnan sold the house to someone else at a price far below the market price twenty days before his death, that is, on August 7, and what is even more coincidental is that the buyer is also surnamed Lai.
When Qiu Wenfeng inquired about the change of property rights of the house, he wrote down the buyer's *** He called **, but as soon as he opened his mouth, he heard a female voice denying it again and again, saying that she was not surnamed Lai, and she did not know the buyer surnamed Lai, and asked him not to call her again.
When Lawyer Qiu called, no one answered, and this behavior made people feel an obvious atmosphere of being a thief. The most unacceptable and abnormal thing is this house located in the first ring road of Chengdu.
Although only 6437 square meters, and a little old, but the location is extremely superior. The reference ** in the real estate agent is about 16,500-17,500 yuan per square meter, but Lai Chunnan sold it at 6,369 yuan per square meter.
In the end, the million-dollar house was sold for only 410,000, and the money mysteriously disappeared after Lai Chunnan's death.
Lai's family handled the sale of the house privately, without notifying Mrs. Liu, who was still living in the house, and even set up a mourning hall. Lai Mingxia has worshiped many times but has never mentioned real estate transactions, and there are many doubts.
How can a buyer allow a closed house to be suspended?Mrs. Liu has not met a house viewer many times, how can a buyer sell a house of hundreds of thousands without looking at it?
Lawyer Qiu patiently explained these suspicions to Mrs. Liu, watched the expression on her face change from shock to numbness, and finally she told Lawyer Qiu something, which made him even more convinced of his guess.
It turned out that the area was about to be demolished, and housing prices soared as a result. Since learning the news last year, the old man has become very restless, which makes Mrs. Liu angry.
She asked lawyer Qiu for help, and lawyer Qiu had decided that Lai Chunnan's family deliberately colluded to sell the property and maliciously transfer the property, and the case would be handled by him.
Although the situation is clear on the surface, after digging deeper, Mr. Qiu feels more and more complicated. The real estate certificate of this property is only in the name of Lai Chunnan. According to Mrs. Liu, the property was purchased in 1996, and the two jointly purchased the house due to the preferential benefits of the housing reform policy.
At that time, the rule was to buy a house according to the length of service. Although both of them were qualified to buy a house, in order to obtain a greater discount, they finally decided to add up their working years and buy the house from Lai Chunnan's unit.
When Lai Chunnan was young, the names of the husband and wife were not generally registered on the real estate certificate when he bought the property, so he was the only one on the real estate certificate. Now, many years later, this incident has become a tool for him to calculate the people around him.
Nowadays, when most couples get married, the woman asks for her name to be added to the title deed, which is drawn from the lessons and experiences of the past. Although only Lai Chunnan's name is registered on the real estate certificate, it is actually the joint property of the two during their marriage.
Whether it is the purchase of a house or the follow-up expenses, they are all shared by the two people, but the woman's name is not written, and Lai Chunnan's family is brazen to want to take it for themselves.
Judging from their series of deceptions, they may also understand how unauthentic this behavior is. As a person with vested interests, it is not surprising that Lai Mingxia behaves like this, but it is unbelievable that Lai Chunnan can agree to this kind of behavior.
After all, he and Mrs. Liu have been together for more than 30 years and have received a lot of care from her, and in the end, he can still be so ungrateful and treat the people around him so coldly, it is really not as good as a beast!
The sale of the house has reached the point of intolerability, but in the later real estate dispute, the behavior of the Lai family shocked everyone.
This divorce incident of the elderly has attracted widespread attention from the society, and the reporter has conducted in-depth interviews with the relevant parties. Mrs. Liu's children can't stay with her often because of work, and her daughter has even settled abroad, and she has less and less contact with her.
Lai Chunnan's situation is similar, the children don't come to visit him much, and even when he is sick, Mrs. Liu takes care of him. They could have been with each other, but now they are in such a predicament.
Mrs. Liu told reporters: "I have lived in this house for more than 20 years, if it is sold, can I still live in **?" ”
Mrs. Liu's son took leave of absence to help his mother deal with the matter, much to the shock of her family. Mrs. Liu's younger brother was even more angry, saying that they got along very well when they went out together before, but they didn't expect Lai Chunnan's family to do such a ruthless thing.
The reporter also expressed concern about this and dialed Lai Mingxia's **. In **, the reporter asked Lai Mingxia directly: "If your father does not divorce Mrs. Liu, then she is the first heir to the house."
Did you take Mr. Lai home at that time to encourage him to divorce Mrs. Liu so that he could inherit the house that was about to be demolished? ”
When faced with reporters' questions, Lai Mingxia did not answer positively, but talked about how her father was not taken care of by Mrs. Liu. She insisted that Mrs. Liu was a liar and a man who loved to take advantage, and that she had never paid a penny when she lived with her father, and that all expenses were borne by her father.
Lai Mingxia also revealed that after her father fell ill, Mrs. Liu still went to play her own way and never took care of him. Regarding the issue of the house, Lai Mingxia said that the original house was jointly purchased by her biological mother and father, and later replaced the current house after the demolition, so the ownership of the house still belongs to her father and has nothing to do with Mrs. Liu, so it is reasonable for her to deal with the sale.
The reporter showed surprise and asked: "Although Mrs. Liu is so irresponsible about marriage, why did your father not choose to divorce, but put up with her for 30 years?" ”
Lai Mingxia replied unhappily: "He cares about his face very much, he can only choose to be patient, and now he has reached the point where he can no longer bear it, if he continues, he may be angry or exhausted." ”
She added, "The reason why we had to sell the house was because we couldn't afford the medical bills, and that was our last resort." If we don't sell our house, what do we use to pay for medical bills? ”
Under further questioning by reporters, Lai Mingxia admitted that the house was sold to an acquaintance, but she still chose to remain silent about other things.
After the reporter hung up, in order to verify their words, he had to ask neighbors and friends around their residence to determine whether their statements were true. While their relationship may not be as close as the average couple, they have not reached the point of divorce.
I've heard before that they have separate money, they spend their own money, and they have to pay for food when they eat together. "We used to think that Lao Lai was a good person, but the divorce was too immoral!
Everyone thinks that he has no brains and is controlled by his daughter. But now that people are gone, what else is there to say? ”
Regarding the incident of his daughter, she has repeatedly **, claiming to let her stepmother move out of the house, when Lao Lai had just left. For the care of Old Man Lai, only Mrs. Liu went all out, and his daughter rarely showed up, I think if it wasn't for Mrs. Liu's care, he would have died a long time ago.
Although the public's statement can win the advantage for Mrs. Liu, when it comes to the issue of house division, the court still needs to make a fair judgment.
Lai's family firmly believes that only his father's name is on the house book, and the house is completely owned by Lai Chunnan. However, Mrs. Lau insisted that the Lai family had colluded to sell the house at a low price and transfer the property jointly owned by the husband and wife, and she was determined to recover the house and divide it fairly.
So, which side makes more sense? According to the lawyer, joint property refers to the property owned jointly by the husband and wife during the marriage. The house was jointly purchased by Liu Lai and Lai after marriage, and even though it was only registered in the name of one person, it was still the joint property of the husband and wife because the acquisition of the house occurred during the existence of the marital relationship.
Lai Chunnan **** house without authorization, which is actually an illegal property distribution behavior. In this case, it is very likely that Mrs. Liu will take back her right to divide the house.
However, the current attitude and handling of the matter by Lai's family makes the process likely to be full of disputes and delays. As Mrs. Liu's son said, "Now our family doesn't care much about the ownership of the house.
Now that her mother is old and in poor health, she has experienced this turmoil again, and the final outcome of her 34-year marriage is unacceptable to her. We don't want her to be too sad about this and affect her health. ”
Although the house may be recovered, the wounds in Mrs. Liu's heart may not be able to heal. However, this incident also reminds us that we must be extremely cautious when dealing with marital and property matters, because deep emotions can wear away in the passage of time, and only a written agreement can truly provide protection.