In April 2021, a story about love and responsibility appeared on the hot search of social platforms, causing a heated discussion. Shanghai man Han Shijun tied the knot with the hospital**, but this happy event was questioned and attacked by many netizens who did not know the truth.
The reason is that someone broke the news that Han Shijun had promised to take care of the children left by his ex-wife's death due to cancer, but in the end he passed the children to his cousin, and chose a new life partner a year after his wife's death.
It's a story that provokes deep thought about commitment, responsibility, and love.
This is a story about true love and misunderstanding, at first everyone thought that Han Shijun was a negative man who broke his oath, but the truth was misunderstood. In order to protect his reputation, Han Shijun bravely took up the law **.
As the lawsuit unfolded, more people learned about the inside story, and things reversed, and Han Shijun changed from a negative man to a good man in everyone's eyes. So what touching stories happened to Zhang Lijun and Han Shijun?
Have their children been adopted by others? Why was Han Shijun's reputation reversed overnight? Let's explore the truth of this love story together!
Zhang Lijun and Han Shijun, a couple who have just entered the marriage hall, ushered in a thunderbolt from the blue in 2015 - Zhang Lijun was diagnosed with cancer. Faced with such a major blow, the young couple chose to face it strongly.
The story of their struggle against the disease has aroused widespread concern in the society. This story is part of the TV program "The World", which is titled "The World", which alludes to the way of life.
Han Shijun and Zhang Lijun's dreams are shattered! A routine inspection uncovers the truth and shatters their hopes. In May 2015, the sweet couple was immersed in the joy of a new life, and Zhang Lijun found out that she was pregnant.
She was extremely happy with the sudden arrival of this little life, but at the same time she was a little nervous. Since then, they are no longer just two people, but parents with family responsibilities.
When Han Shijun learned that his wife was pregnant, he was very excited. To be on the safe side, he decided to take his wife to the hospital for a comprehensive check-up to prepare for childbirth. However, this ordinary inspection revealed a big problem!
After a machine examination, the doctor found a huge shadow in Zhang Lijun's waist and abdomen. This finding upset the doctors, so they were advised to do a more in-depth examination.
The results were shocking: a rare, huge tumor was found near Zhang Lijun's pancreas, and it had become cancerous. Pancreatic cancer is one of the malignant tumors with the lowest recovery rate, and it is usually more common in people over the age of 40, with more male patients, and young female patients such as Zhang Lijun are very rare.
Pancreatic cancer is a daunting malignancy, with its early stage of the disease being difficult to detect and the extremely high mortality rate, making it the sixth most lethal in China.
Even in the middle stage, it is often mistaken for digestive tract diseases, such as yellowing, diarrhea and flatulence, and when the abdominal pain is unbearable, it is usually in the late stage, and it is extremely difficult to get up.
Zhang Lijun never expected that she usually thought that her stomach ache was just an ordinary cold, but it turned out to be the onset of pancreatic cancer. When the doctor told her the news, she just sighed and shook her head.
Because of the difficulty of pancreatic cancer, the doctor reluctantly told her: "You are now two months pregnant, in order to reduce your pain and reduce your burden, it is recommended that you have the child killed, so that you can live for a longer period of time." ”
After Han Shijun and Zhang Lijun heard the doctor's diagnosis, they were like a bolt from the blue. Zhang Lijun couldn't hold back her tears, while Han Shijun felt weak all over her body and almost collapsed to the ground.
Although the doctor proposed a variety of life-prolonging plans such as drugs and chemotherapy, Zhang Lijun could no longer listen, and she and Han Shijun returned home, ready to discuss how to face it in the future.
Although the doctor's words are ruthless, the reality cannot be changed. Zhang Lijun was lying on the bed, and after careful consideration, she said to Han Shijun: "I want to give birth to this child!."”
Hearing this, Han Shijun was very surprised, and he resolutely objected: "Your body is already like this, why do you want to risk having a child?"I don't agree and don't want my children to be born without a mother!”
Although Zhang Lijun's husband was opposed, she was unswerving, fearless of difficulties, and determined to give birth to the child. So, why did she insist so firmly on giving birth to this child?
After hardships, behind the birth of the child, Zhang Lijun went to consult the doctor and asked if her disease would be inherited to the child.
After the doctor's relief, Zhang Lijun regained her confidence and chose to wait for delivery in the hospital with peace of mind. Her courageous decision deeply moved the "Human World" program team and decided to make a documentary about the couple.
However, Zhang Lijun's weak body and firm belief made the staff of the program team deeply curious, why did she insist on giving birth to this child?Zhang Lijun responded indifferently: "I have lived for 26 years, and my child has not yet been born, I want him to see the world." ”
Zhang Lijun said firmly: "My husband is only 27 years old, I can't let him die alone, he also needs someone to accompany him when he is old." Hearing her thoughts, the on-site staff were in awe of her, a seriously ill mother fighting cancer.
When the husband heard his wife's decision, he immediately hugged her tightly and said that he would do his best to help his wife**. After making this fateful decision, Zhang Lijun began to prepare for the birth of a child, taking a large number of drugs every day to control her condition, while also enduring various discomforts such as morning sickness and abdominal pain, for which she made great efforts.
Han Shijun took good care of his pregnant wife, from medicine and food to clothes and supplies, he personally checked to ensure that it was harmless. In order to avoid affecting the health of the fetus, doctors also only prescribe drugs that have no effect.
Although Zhang Lijun was nauseous, she insisted on eating for the sake of the child's nutrition.
Han Shijun and Zhang Lijun are a brave couple who bear the pressures and hardships of life together. Zhang Lijun's strength is impressive, she knows that she not only has to take care of herself, but also the pillar of the whole family.
During her pregnancy, Zhang Lijun had to rely on anesthetics to relieve her pain because of unbearable abdominal pain. However, the doctor told her that the anesthetic was not only bad for the growth of the fetus, but could also create serious dependence.
After hearing the news, Zhang Lijun resolutely decided to face it strongly, and despite the unbearable pain, she still persevered, just to create a better future for the children. In this way, Zhang Lijun persevered through the long pregnancy until December 2015, when doctors decided that the time was ripe for surgery.
Zhang Lijun was sent to the operating room, and her bravery and perseverance moved everyone. Although she experienced unimaginable difficulties, she never gave up and persevered until the last moment.
Zhang Lijun's story shows us the greatness and tenacity of mother's love, and she uses her actions to tell us that as long as we have faith, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome.
Zhang Lijun's special constitution because of cancer greatly increased the risk of her caesarean section. Han Shijun outside the operating room clenched his fists, his palms were cold, he stared at the door of the operating room, and his heartbeat was pounding in his ears.
Their parents were also anxiously waiting in the hospital, and the staff of the program team followed closely, full of worries.
After nearly an hour of surgery, Zhang Lijun and Han Shijun finally ushered in the birth of a new life! However, the child weighed only two pounds and his lungs were underdeveloped, so he was rushed to the intensive care unit for observation.
Zhang Lijun fainted because of the operation and consumed a lot of physical energy, but woke up soon after. When she woke up, her husband Han Shijun excitedly gave her a kiss.
A few days later, the child was out of danger and transferred to a general ward, where the family was able to visit the child. Although the child's situation still needs attention, it is the crystallization of their love, and they will definitely fully support the child's growth.
Zhang Lijun and Han Shijun were overjoyed, and they couldn't wait to take the child over and let their wives see it. Looking at the child in her husband's arms, Zhang Lijun's face was filled with a happy smile.
The doctors at the hospital also expressed their amazement at the tenacity of this little life, which is a miracle that the child is as strong as the mother and survives the danger. Hearing the doctor's words, the two were overjoyed, and they decided to name the child Han Heming.
The name is taken from the "Book of Songs, Xiaoya" in the "crane chirps nine gao, the sound is heard in the sky", the crane is a legendary auspicious bird, symbolizing longevity, and the crane can soar into the sky, and meet the gods, which is also the couple's good wishes for the child.
Han Shijun and Zhang Lijun named the child "Xiaolongbao", which not only conforms to the numerology of Han Shijun is a dragon and Zhang Lijun is a snake, but also implies the vitality and hope of a dragon.
Although Zhang Lijun was a little hesitant about whether to broadcast this special story, they finally agreed, hoping to fulfill his wife's last wish and welcome the arrival of a new life.
The program team also sent blessings, although they were initially worried about Zhang Lijun's privacy, but finally got their consent. ”
Zhang Lijun and Han Shijun originally planned to shoot a documentary about their childbirth, but the program team decided to shoot it for free and give it to them. But after the surgery, Zhang Lijun's mentality changed.
She believes that since she suffers from this disease, there must be many people in the society who have the same experience as her and suffer from the pain. So, she decided to let the show be broadcast, so that more people can see her story, face life bravely, overcome difficulties, and live strongly.
Zhang Lijun has realized that her life should not be spent in an ordinary way, but should do more to let more people know their stories and let more patients regain their confidence.
Therefore, she decided to share this story with more people, hoping to help them find the courage and strength to overcome the disease and move towards a better future.
The love story of Zhang Lijun and Han Shijun has touched many people, and their strength and bravery have regained the confidence of anti-cancer patients. Many people were envious of their love and reached out to give them support and encouragement.
However, Han Shijun's remarriage has caused a lot of controversy. Now, according to the hospital's arrangement, Zhang Lijun has begun to receive chemotherapy**, and Han Shijun has been by her side.
They need more love and blessings during this difficult time.
After countless cancer surgeries, Zhang Lijun's body has been thin to the point of skin and bones. Her mouth was full of medicinal taste, Han Shijun saw it in her eyes and felt pain in her heart.
Although he really wanted to buy his wife something delicious, he could only feel sorry silently in the face of his wife's current situation. Han Shijun was willing to continue to accept ** for the sake of his wife's health, but then he received a message that broke his heart.
The doctor told him that although the cancer cells in Zhang Lijun's body had decreased, new cancer cells had developed in other organs. And there is an Indicum cell-like situation, and the situation is not optimistic.
Although Han Shijun is in pain, he still hopes to be able to do something for his wife. He knows that no matter how difficult the road ahead is, he will be by Zhang Lijun's side, support her, and encourage her until the last moment of her life.
After the doctor informed him of his illness, Han Shijun realized that Zhang Lijun's life was running out, and her hope of survival was extremely slim. Han Shijun tried to hide it, but his expression revealed the secret, and the clever Zhang Lijun had already guessed probably.
So, she made a bold decision: give up ** and go to the outside world to see. Zhang Lijun's words were calm and powerful, Han Shijun did not stop her this time, and the couple decided to use this last time to realize Zhang Lijun's last wish.
Han Shijun and Zhang Lijun embarked on an unforgettable trip to the provinces around Shanghai, enjoying never-before-seen scenery and local customs along the way.
Although Han Shijun was worried about his wife's physical condition, seeing the smile on his wife's face, all the troubles disappeared. That time was the happiest time after Zhang Lijun's illness.
However, happiness is always short-lived, as if God is playing a joke on them.
The love story of Han Shijun and Zhang Lijun has touched countless people, but in 2021, because he did not keep his promise to his wife, he passed the child to his sister, and married someone else a year after his wife's death, which caused widespread concern and controversy in society.
Although he had promised to take good care of the children, it turned out that he did not keep this promise, which was sad and disappointing. Although he is married, his actions still raise questions and condemnation of him, while also sparking discussions about family education and responsibility.
The news of Han Shijun and Zhang Lijun sparked heated discussions, but Han Shijun was greeted by abuse from netizens. The whistleblower revealed that Han Shijun was inconsistent with his words and deeds, failed to fulfill his responsibilities as a father, but fell in love with a ** after his wife's death and quickly got married.
Prior to this, there was news that Han Shijun was married, but it did not attract such large-scale attention. The reason for the heated discussion this time is that the whistleblower disclosed a large number of **, revealing in detail what Han Shijun did.
Many fans who once supported Han Shijun and Zhang Lijun now feel cheated, and they have left messages under Zhang Lijun's Weibo: "Your husband is not alone, he has long lived a happy life with his new wife, only your children seem to be the loneliest." ”
Another person commented: "It's ironic, in the end, it was only my own tears that I was deceived." There are countless such remarks, which makes Han Shijun's association with ** inextricable, but is this really the case?
Han Shijun suffered from misunderstanding and criticism from colleagues and leaders because of the impact on his life and work on the Internet, and he decided to hire a lawyer to defend himself. The results of the investigation showed that Han Shijun fell into deep grief after the death of his wife, and he could not get out of the shadows for a year, and he missed his wife every day.