Friends, listen to me, let's talk something real today. Regarding love, everyone hopes that it will be smooth sailing, but reality often gives us tests again and again. Sometimes these trials seem to ask us, "How much can you endure?" ”
Hurt you once, you didn't go. It could be because of love, because of hope, because you feel like it was just an accident. Hurt you twice, you're still there, maybe you start to wonder, but you still choose to stay. However, when the hurt becomes a myriad of times, you really should stop and ask yourself: "Is this relationship really worth it?" ”
I know it's the nonchalant tone in which she talks to you, her impatience, the way she ignores you, and the decisions she wants. You may ask yourself, "Why should I put up with this?" ”
If a strong woman weeps, it is because she has stretched to the limit. If an obsessive heart starts to give up, it's because it's already hurt too deeply, and it's time to wake up. If you keep going, it may be a path from which there is no turning back.
I'm not here to tell you what to do, I'm just trying to say that love should be mutual, based on respect and understanding. If a person is constantly hurting in a relationship, then the relationship may not be a healthy one.
You may feel that you have invested too much and that giving up means that everything is in vain. But you know what? Staying in a relationship that keeps you hurting is a real waste. Wasting your feelings, wasting your time and energy, and maybe even wasting your chance to meet someone who is really good to you.
So, what I'm trying to say is, when you find yourself in a pattern of hurt that repeats over and over again, give yourself a chance to think about it, is that kind of relationship really worth it? Don't be afraid to make changes, sometimes, leaving the wrong person is the only way to meet the right person.
Remember, you deserve to be loved, you deserve to be respected, and you deserve to have a happy relationship. Don't let fear and habit be an excuse for you to stay in an unhealthy relationship. Your feelings matter, and so does your well-being.
Finally, I would like to conclude today's topic with one sentence: "Self-esteem and self-love are the foundation of any healthy relationship." If you feel that this sentence touches you, then take it to heart and use it as your motivation to move forward.
Is enough of that? When love turns into an infinite cycle of hurt, it's time to stop and think about it.