In every woman's heart, there are some unforgettable images of men.
They may be the sweetness of first love, or the passers-by in life, or they may be eternal regrets.
No matter how the years change, the figures of these men always inadvertently break into their dreams.
It's both trance-like and clear.
In a small café in Beijing, Li Meng was chatting with a friend.
At this moment, an old song sounded in the store, and she suddenly fell silent. That song evoked her memories of the man she once had.
He was her college tablemate, gentle and always able to help and encourage her at critical moments.
Although the two have never established a relationship, he is undoubtedly the most special existence in her heart during those youthful years.
1.The first type of man is her first love. Like a breeze in spring, he began to fly with the dreams of a girl. The first time they held hands together, the first time they looked at each other affectionately, were all engraved in her memory, as the poet Rabindranath Tagore said: "Your slight smile is like a new life." The youthful beauty and pure emotion contained in this smile are something she will never forget.
2.The second type of man is her mentor and friend on the road of life. They may not have been emotionally entangled, but his wisdom and advice had a profound impact on her. As Steve Jobs said, "Your work will fill most of your life, and you can only feel meaningful if you love what you do." "That man taught her the importance of pursuing her dreams and loving life.
3.The third type of man is the guardian of her life. Maybe he wasn't rich or handsome, but he gave her the most sincere care and protection, and made her feel the warmest sunshine in her life.
4.The fourth type of man is her unfinished love. Their relationship may end for various reasons, but the feelings that remain in their hearts are entwined like vines and are difficult to let go. Those unspoken words, and the promises that were not fulfilled, have become eternal regrets.
5.The fifth type of man is the opponent who inspires her passion. They compete with each other in the workplace or in life, but this competition allows her to constantly surpass herself and achieve a better version of herself.
6.The sixth type of man is her partner in life. Maybe it's a couple, maybe it's a husband and wife, they face the ups and downs of life side by side and become each other's most solid support.
7.The last kind of man is the grinder who makes her grow. Their appearance is like a bitter medicine, although the process is painful, but it has taught her to be strong and independent.
These men are like a few stops in the journey of life, some are dazzling, some are sad.
But without exception, they are all deeply imprinted in her life and have become her indelible memories.
When Li Meng slowly walked out of the café, the night was already dark, but there was a trace of warmth in her heart. These memories are both a burden and a strength. As Oprah Winfrey said, "What you believe, you become." "These men have shaped her past, and her beliefs and choices will determine her future.
In this world of uncertainties, every woman continues in her own story.
Maybe one day, they will meet the person who can write the chapter of their life with her, and maybe at that moment, all the waiting and experience will become worth it.