The term "stinging people" first originated in Japan, and as the name suggests, it refers to those who do not go to school and work for a long time, refuse to socialize, and stay at home waiting for their parents to support themselves. According to statistics, there are currently 1.46 million "slumbering people" in Japanese society.
You must know that the number of newborn babies in Japan in 2022 is less than 780,000, so you can imagine what the number of "slumbers" is, and this is still conservative data, because in Japan, people are ashamed of "scubant", so when facing the survey, many people hide their true situation, so the actual number of "scubiners" in Japanese society is far more than 1.46 million.
So, why do so many people choose to "squat at home"? Is it just because of the fear of hardship?
In fact, the reasons why people choose to become "slumbers" are complex, including environmental factors, family factors and personal factors.
First of all, from the perspective of the overall environment, since the outbreak of the new crown epidemic in 2019, the global economy has suffered a heavy blow, and at that time, in order to fight the epidemic, many countries chose intermittent lockdown or precise lockdown, and Japan is no exception.
In addition to influencing people's daily lives, this initiative has also changed the way people work.
For example, students, affected by the lockdown, they can't go to school, they can only choose to take online classes at home, although online classes are also a good way to teach and teach, but don't forget that students go to school not only to learn textbook knowledge.
In school, students not only learn cultural knowledge, but also build a sense of community through communication and interaction with teachers and classmates, and at the same time establish an emotional connection with these peopleThis is of great significance for the healthy development of students' personalities.
In group life, it is difficult for people to feel lonely, so people will yearn for a rich, fulfilling and unknown life more than staying at home. However, three years of home life have cut off people's connection with the outside world, and when people find that they can live without going out, they naturally no longer yearn for the life of the outside world.
The same is true for office workers, people are inert, and people will not give up their jobs in the past because they are not sure whether they can continue their lives after giving up their jobsSo even if the work environment is extremely challenging, they will not give up easily.
After three years of working from home, they found that the Internet could help them understand the outside world, and problems at work could also be communicated through computers and mobile phones, so when they realized that staying at home was more comfortable and safer than going out, they didn't want to go out.
Of course, it is not that they are not "slumbered people" if they don't stay at home, this kind of people also need to have a characteristic, that is, they don't work and gnaw at the old, and the reason why they do this is nothing more than that their personal outlook on life is too negative and their parents are too doting on their children.
This can be found from the cases of family tragedies caused by "dormancy" announced by Japan**.
For example, in June 2019, Japan** reported the case of killing a child with a knife in Japan**.
After Xiong Ze Yingzhao was brought to justice, when asked about the reason for the killing, the reason he gave was that he was afraid that he and his wife would be killed by his son who had been living at home for many years, so he acted first.
How can a son kill his parents? People were surprised when they heard this reason"How could he, as a father, kill his own son".Just as unacceptable. So, is Hideaki Kumazawa lying?
Of course not, in fact all he said was the truth.
It turned out that Eiichiro Kumasawa was often bullied and beaten by his classmates after he went to junior high school, and every time he was wronged in school, he couldn't take revengeHis psychology was distorted, and in order to make himself happy, he poured all his anger on his mother.
Every time he came home after being bullied, he punched and kicked his mother, and his atrocities could not be stopped until Hideaki Kumazawa came home. But even so, as parents, they did not give up on this son.
After Eiichiro Kumasawa went to university, he moved out of his family, and out of his parents' concern, they would send him living expenses and various daily necessities every month. And under the unconditional care of his parents, Eiichiro Kumazawa did not grow into an adult with a sound personality, but bred his habit of eating and being lazy.
After graduating from college, he never refused to go out to work, and lived on the living expenses given by his parents every monthAs expected, he was expelled and returned to living a life of hiding.
With no independent income, he had to move back home to live with his parents again, staying at home every day, and indulging in the game world whenever he had time.
Because he has not been in contact with the outside world for a long time, his personality has become more and more irritable, and sometimes a small thing can lead him to jump up and down, and even have a tendency to kill people with a knife.
In the face of a series of very abnormal behaviors of their son, Xiong Zeying Akira and his wife did not choose to ask for help from the outside world, which is actually related to Japan's shame of "living in hierarchies".
This also caused the tragedy of their daughter, who couldn't stand the shameless behavior of Eiichiro Kumazawa, and committed suicide.
The death of their daughter has dealt a heavy blow to the family, and the mentality of Xiong Ze Hideaki and his wife has also changed. Before the incident, Eiichiro Kumasawa became irritable again because of a trivial matter, and the ending can be imagined, his mother was subjected to domestic violence again, and Eichihiro Kumasawa quickly rushed home to stop his son's atrocity after receiving a call from his wife.
But he didn't expect that this time Xiong Ze Eiichiro was even more irritable than before, he was dissatisfied with his father's obstruction, and kept shouting to kill his parents. Xiong Ze Yingzhao, who was physically and mentally exhausted, listened to this sentence alone, and saw his son's crazy appearance, and he felt that his son could do such a rebellious thing.
So, under the guidance of a variety of emotions,He had a terrible thought, that is: strike first.
On June 1, he took advantage of Kumazawa Eiichiro's unpreparedness and stabbed him with a knife hidden behind him in advance, and he didn't know how many stabs, until he saw the son he loved and hated falling to the ground motionless, and he threw the knife to the ground.
Looking back on this case, it is not difficult for us to find that aside from the ugly side of human nature, Eiichiro Kumazawa's outlook on life is very negative, and after being stimulated by the outside world, he did not ask his parents for help at the first time, but used another extreme and ** way to divert his emotions.
Indulging in this unhealthy psychology for a long time, his life has become a mess.
And he became like this, it is undeniable that his parents are also the driving force of the tragedyThey connived and evaded the problem, which led to Eiichiro Kumazawa embarking on the road of no return, which led to such a tragedy.
In fact, Eiichiro Kumazawa's experience is the epitome of countless "slumbering people", whether it is the external economic downturn, the poor handling of social relationships, or the excessive doting of parents, they choose this way of life to put it bluntly, in fact, it is to escape from reality and pursue the so-called sense of security.
And Japan wants to change this social status quoThe most direct way is to help the "slumbering people" establish good connections with the outside worldThis is a huge project that requires the joint efforts of society and people.
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