When I got married, my mother-in-law kept picking my family for being poor.
My daughter-in-law and I were college classmates, and we had a good relationship and have been together for five years.
My daughter-in-law is otherwise fine, but there is one thing I don't like very much, and that is that my daughter-in-law listens to fucking things.
It can be said that it has reached the point of obeying the word.
My daughter-in-law and I first negotiated a bride price of 100,000 yuan, after all, I am a rural family and don't have that much money.
But the daughter-in-law turned her head and told her mother-in-law about it.
My mother-in-law agreed, but my mother-in-law wanted to add one more, that is, I had to buy a suite in the city, otherwise I wouldn't marry my daughter to me.
To be honest, I just graduated from college, and the 100,000 bride price was all paid by my family.
Now my mother-in-law has asked me to buy a house again, isn't this embarrassing for me?
But I like my daughter-in-law very much, so I don't know what to do for a while.
In the end, I had to tell my family about it, and my parents were running around and borrowing everywhere to help me collect the down payment.
After buying the house, I thought that my mother-in-law would look up to me, but I didn't expect my mother-in-law to propose it again.
The wedding banquet was going to be held in the city, and it made me panic for a while.
I originally planned to hold a banquet in the village, so that the cost was small, and I could keep the unfinished dishes.
Now when the mother-in-law says this, there is no one who can't get hundreds of thousands, and all this money is from his parents.
Since my family has no money, even if I book a table in the city, it will be 801 tables.
When the mother-in-law saw it, she said there vigorously, I am not authentic, and I am so shabby when I get married.
After eating, I thought my mother's family would go back, after all, they were close to the city.
But what I didn't expect was that my mother-in-law said that she would not go back, and insisted that I open a hotel in the county seat for them to stay.
I had no choice but to help them open a hotel, and this time they came more than fifty of them.
Let's not talk about our side, I have to open thirty rooms for them alone.
After getting married, her mother's house was close to the county seat, and her mother-in-law came to the county to play at every turn.
Every time I come, I will live in the house I bought, not only that, but my mother-in-law comes back late every time she plays, and when she comes back, she has no sense of proportion, and often makes a lot of noise, and the children can't sleep well.
My son-in-law was embarrassed to say anything, so I asked my daughter-in-law to say it, but my daughter-in-law didn't go.
Not only that, but my mother-in-law never came to my house to buy anything.
Take your child out to play, and you won't buy food for your child when he's hungry.
They will also find all kinds of reasons that the things outside are unhygienic.
But once, I had something to do in my unit and had to work overtime, and when I came back, I saw my mother-in-law eating at the night market, and the food was very delicious.
When the Chinese New Year is approaching, I want to buy things and go back to see my parents.
But my daughter-in-law said, there is nothing to do to go back, how expensive the round-trip fare is.
I don't understand, it's almost the New Year, go back and see your family, what shouldn't you do.
Later, I wanted to buy something and send it home, but my daughter-in-law said that she had everything at home, and besides, the courier fee was very expensive these days.
But it didn't take long for my daughter-in-law to tell me to go back to her parents' house with her for the New Year, and I knew what my daughter-in-law meant.
My daughter-in-law and I went back to my parents' house for the New Year, but I didn't know any of my daughter-in-law's family.
Not only that, but my mother-in-law also likes to pick on me, and I can't stand or sit when I do it.
I finally got through it, and just when I came back, my mother-in-law said that she would come to the county to live for two days.
I was very upset and told my daughter-in-law that I would go home for a few days.
Hearing me say this, my daughter-in-law was still not happy, and this time I didn't get used to her, so I bought good things and went back.
After I left, my mother-in-law came to my house and was very happy to see that I was not at home.
And when I got home, my mother brought out all kinds of delicious food, unlike my mother-in-law, when I went to their house, I didn't take anything.
At this moment, I realized that my mother was the best for me and cared for me all the time.
I stayed at home for a few days and felt like I had gained a lot of weight.
At the same time, I also figured out that if my mother-in-law could be half as good as my mother, I would be good to her.
If it's still the same as before, then don't blame me for giving her a face.
It is said that the country is easy to change and difficult to change, my mother-in-law is still the same, and after I go back, I am not used to her, and I throw her face.
A few days later, my mother-in-law left, and my daughter-in-law and I quarreled because of this.
I'm not used to her, but I won't do it when I quarrel, it's not right to hit a woman, let alone my own woman.
After that, every time my mother-in-law came, I would give her a face, and gradually my mother-in-law did not come, and the relationship between me and my daughter-in-law was not so stiff.
Do you think I'm doing the right thing?