Social interaction is a way to communicate with others, and it is also a need for personal development. Pay attention to social etiquette and learn to live in harmony with others, in order to establish good interpersonal relationships and bring more gains to yourself. The main social etiquette is:
1.Pay attention to grooming, keep neat and tidy, calm and generous.
2.Keep your covenant on time. If you are late, you should show respect by explaining the reason to the other person.
3.Women should choose appropriate makeup and hairstyles to add their charm according to their temperament, face shape, age, etc. Don't dress up too trendy,**
4.Women should not wear makeup in public places or in front of men, and do not borrow cosmetics from others. Don't criticize other people's makeup.
5.Wear ornaments should be simple and elegant, consistent with your face shape, body shape, and identity, and be fashionable and tasteful.
6.Men do not have items hanging around their waists, such as mobile phones, keys, etc.
7.Don't make a cooing sound while eating.
8.Men should learn to respect women and try to provide convenience for the women around them. Don't flaunt your designer watches, clothing, bags, etc.
9.Handshake Gift:
The order of shaking hands between the two is as follows: the superior first, the elder first, the lady first, and the master first: the junior, junior, man, and guest should greet him first, and then stretch out his hand to shake his hand when he sees the other person stretch out his hand. Don't stretch out your hand in front of your superiors and elders. If the two people have similar status, age, and position, it is polite to extend their hand first.
If a man and a woman meet for the first time, the woman can not shake hands with the man and give each other a nod salute; If you receive a guest, whether you are a woman or a woman, the hostess should take the initiative to extend her hand to welcome her, and the man can also extend his hand to the female guest first.
If one person shakes hands with more than one person, it should be the superior first, then the subordinate, the elder first, then the junior, the host first, then the guest, the lady first, then the man.
If one party ignores the order of the handshake and extends his hand first, the other party should immediately shake it back to avoid embarrassment.
Be careful when shaking hands:
When shaking hands, pay attention and don't look left and right, shaking hands while greeting other people. When meeting and saying goodbye, do not shake hands across thresholds. Handshakes are generally always held while standing, and it is rude to shake hands while sitting, except for the elderly, infirm or disabled. When holding one hand together, the left hand should not be in the pocket.
Men should not wear hats and gloves to hold hands with others, and those who wear ** can not take off their hats, but they should raise their hands first, and then shake hands. Ladies may wear decorative hats and gloves for handshakes.
Do not use your left hand to hold hands with others unless you have a disability in your right hand. When your right hand is dirty, you should show your palm to the other party to make a statement and apologize. The handshake should be even, generally symbolic to women, but the handshake should be calm, warm and sincere. When shaking hands, don't grab them, don't cross them, and wait until others have finished shaking them before reaching out to shake each other. Crossing hands is usually a faux pas. Some countries regard the cross-handshake as a symbol of bad omen, and the cross-shaped "ten", which means cross, and believe that it will inevitably invite misfortune.
10.Introduction: Introduce yourself and introduce others.
Self-introduction should be timed, half a minute is appropriate, at most no more than 1 minute. The attitude must be kind, natural, friendly and confident. The content of the introduction includes the full name of the name, the unit you work for, and the specific work you are responsible for.
Introductions to others follow the rules of introduction, introducing men to women first, young people to older people, low status people to high status first, unmarried people to married people first, guests to the host, and late arrivals to first arrivals.
11.Etiquette about business cards.
The order in which business cards are presented: Generally, people with low status hand business cards to people with high status first, and men hand business cards to women first. When there is more than one person, the business card should be handed to the person with a higher position or older age; Or from near to far, in turn, do not skip, so as not to mistake the other party for a sense of favoritism. Points to note for business card exchange:
It is possible to exchange business cards with foreigners from the West, the Middle East, India, etc. with only your right hand, and with Japanese people.
When the other party hands you a business card, if you don't have a business card or don't bring a business card, you should first apologize to the other party and then explain the reason. For example: "I'm sorry, I don't have a business card", "I'm sorry, I ran out of business cards today, I'll send you one in person in a few days".
When taking the other party's business card, don't put it aside without looking at it, don't play with it in your hand, don't carry it in your hand casually, don't rub it in your hand, otherwise it will hurt the other party's self-esteem and affect each other's interactions.
At the same time, keep the following details in mind when socializing:
1.When someone pours water, don't look at it, but hold it with your hand as a sign of politeness.
2.When others talk to you, you must at least be able to answer, and you can't say the last sentence, and you don't have the next sentence, or blindly say ahhhhhh
3.The first sentence must be "Hey, hello", and wait for others to hang up first.
4.When he left the table after eating, he said, "I'm done eating, you eat slowly."
5.To send someone away, say, "Go slowly." ”
6.When listening to others, don't wander your eyes. This seems rude.
7.After pouring tea and water for others, don't point the spout at the other person.
8.When there are people in the house, you should close the door lightly when you go out.
9.Go to someone else's house, don't sit on someone's bed.
10.When clinking glasses with others at the wine table, your own glass must be lower than the other person's, especially if the other party is an elder or leader.
11.Try not to make a sound while eating.
12.Squat down when picking up things or putting on shoes, and don't bend over and pout your buttocks.
13.Don't talk to your colleagues about the rights and wrongs of your boss or other colleagues, as your unintentional words may become evidence that others are hitting you.
14.Between best friends, unless he is too poor to eat, it is better not to have financial exchanges, and many valuable friendships are ruined by money.
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