As mentioned in the previous article, if you want to change your fate, the secret is "the unity of knowledge and action".
These four words are easy to say and easy to do, but they can also be difficult.
The reason why it is easy is that you only need to have two conditions, one is the goal of "knowing", and the other is the belief of "doing", when the goal and belief are combined, it is the time of fate.
The reason why it is difficult is that your beliefs flicker on and off like fireflies, intermittently with your goal, and even disappear into the dark night sky, with no more light to speak of, and in the end you still fail to transform your fate into the other side you want to see.
What is Faith? Simple understanding is self-confidence. Why does it be so hard for your self-confidence to last for a certain amount of time? Originally, he was full of confidence one second, but he was sluggish the next second.
You and I are mortals, we can't "turn the situation with our hearts", we can only go with the flow, and a small setback is enough to shatter our self-confidence.
However, self-confidence can be cultivated through oneself to grow, how to cultivate?
Of course, all roads lead to Rome, I just show you a way, and if you think it is suitable, then put it into practice.
If you don't practice, just talk and don't practice, then your life can only be like this, and no one can help you.
For the sake of understanding, my method is called the "reaction nudge method" for the time being.
Taking advantage of the two-sided nature of things, pushing out one side through the other, similar to action and reaction forces in physics.
"Self-confidence" and "non-confidence" are two sides of things, transferring the mind from one end of the "unconfident" to the other end of the "self-confidence", thus transforming one state of mind into another.
I can only say so much, it's up to you to understand and verify it yourself.
Seriously understand Wang Yangming's words, "A thought is action", this is the essence of "the unity of knowledge and action".