Introduction: In "Three Lives, Three Worlds and Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms", Xuannu was able to grow up with Bai Qian, and her eldest sister married Bai Qian's brother, which shows that Xuannu was born in a noble family in Qingqiu. So, as a prominent family and aristocratic woman in the Qingqiu region, why was she married to a black bear spirit by her mother? In "Three Lives, Three Worlds, Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms", the Xuannu have a common characteristic - love for their father. At first, people mistakenly thought that her mother did not love Xuannu, but as time passed, people gradually realized that behind all this was her mother's deep good intentions.
Soon after the beginning of "Three Lives, Three Worlds and Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms", Xuannu made a glorious appearance, and she went to Kunlun Ruins to find Bai Qian, not to learn skills, but to escape the shackles of marriage. Xuannu is actually the wife and sister of Bai Qian's brother. She grew up with Bai Qian, so Xuannu is not a child of any ordinary family in Qingqiu. Although Xuannu is described in the play as the noble daughter of Qingqiu, she is actually the daughter of a concubine, that is, Xuannu's mother is her concubine!
In Qingqiu, the tradition of monogamy is highly respected, so it is likely that Xuannu's mother was treated unfairly in Qingqiu. Although Xuannu's status as a concubine's daughter is not prominent, she has a close relationship with Bai Qian, so her living situation is not too bad. Under this premise, we can't imagine the status of the black bear spirit. Although we are not clear about the identity of the black bear spirit, from the Xuannu's narrative, we can infer that the status of the black bear spirit in the fairy world may not be prominent, and it may not be as good as the Xuannu family, which is also the reason why the Xuannu is reluctant to marry him.
Xuannu is very ambitious, and she is eager to marry a wealthy family, which is why she chooses to avoid marriage. Because, she knows her daughter's fate. As the mother of the Xuannu, why is she willing to marry her daughter Xuannu to the black bear spirit? Why not fight for some benefits for your daughter? After all, Xuannu is also a beautiful woman, if she marries very high, won't she, as a mother, also benefit from this?
In fact, Xuannu's mother also hopes that Xuannu will marry someone higher. When Xuannu's mother tracked down to Kunlun Ruins, in order to win the trust of Xuannu, she decided to push Diefeng out, because Diefeng was the second prince of the West Sea, so Xuannu's mother left. Therefore, from this point of view, Xuannu's mother is also willing to let her daughter marry someone higher.
But as time passed, Xuannu no longer knew Xuannu, and she hid in a corner with her sick daughter in her arms, and heard her mother's disgust and anger towards her. Later, when she saw her daughter again, she realized that she was wrong. In fact, the reason why Xuannu's mother asked her daughter to marry the black bear spirit was because Xuannu was too conceited and arrogant.
She thinks that her daughter is her own brother, and she wants to protect her like a father, instead of caring only about her daughter like herself, not even her own body, let alone her heart. The best person to know her daughter is the mother, and as a mother, how can she be ignorant of her daughter's character? She is also afraid that her daughter Xuannu will marry Gaomen, which will cause trouble.
Although Xuannu's mother harbors deep hatred for this daughter, her concern for Xuannu is sincere, not hatred because of love? Her mother was a kind person and loved her very much. In order to marry a higher person, Xuannu made many mistakes, causing the gods of Moyuan to be harmed, thus angering the Celestial Clan. Her father was also killed by her. betrayed Si Yin, that is, Bai Qian, thus angering Qingqiu. Xuannu stole the formation diagram and caused great damage to the creatures of almost the entire Six Realms, and her actions could not be forgiven, even though she became the Wing Queen, she spent seventy thousand years of peace in the Wing Realm.
However, all the consequences of her evil deeds were borne by her mother, let us recall the predicament experienced by the 70,000-year-old Xuannu mother? She's a woman who's been poked in the ass. If you haven't been punctured in your spine or drowned in saliva, that's pretty good! Her father was also poked to kill each other. The mother deeply regretted that she felt that she was powerless in teaching her daughter, and at the same time felt sorry for the Heavenly Clan, Qingqiu, and the beings of the Six Realms!
In fact, Xuannu's mother not only harbors a deep hatred for her daughter, but also punishes herself, and he is full of resentment towards herself, which is really a sympathetic mother, right? However, she wants to punish her daughter with her life. Xuannu's behavior is too extreme, her life is completely for herself, in order to pursue a higher status, she has no bottom line and principles. In the end, she suffered betrayal and abandonment by everyone, and despite her tragic fate, she did not deserve people's sympathy, what do you think?