The festive atmosphere of the Spring Festival is still around us. However, in this special period, a short ** sparked heated discussions on the Internet: on February 18, the first day after the Spring Festival, the Civil Affairs Bureau went to work, and Ms. Wan of Anhui Province went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for a marriage certificate and found that the divorced people lined up in a long line. Only 5 couples got married that day, and about 100 couples divorced!
I would like to know how the five married couples felt when they saw the long queue of divorce queues, whether they had the illusion of standing in the wrong line in a trance, whether they left some shadows on the marriage they were looking forward to, and whether they absorbed the idea of avoiding the future from the divorce team next to them.
"Divorce" is a glaring word for the family, if you don't feel that being together is too painful, who wants to go that far, I believe that nine out of ten people who are married have the idea of divorce (including my wife), but some people can endure it, and some people don't want to endure it and can't bear it!
There could be several reasons for this:
One: The relationship between husband and wife is faint and gone, and during the Spring Festival, husband and wife stay together for a long time, and the contradictions and problems that exist in ordinary times are all issued during this period, resulting in the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.
Two: As the saying goes, poor couples mourn everything, although many people are reluctant to admit or oppose this point of view, money is really an important pillar to maintain the family, the pressure of the festival increases, the money is gone, the family expenses increase during the New Year, and the relatives come and go after the holiday, resulting in economic burden, which also leads to tension in the relationship between husband and wife.
Three: social and economic changes, now the traditional concept of family is challenged, especially in the environment of the Internet, some people are affected by the Internet, the expectations and handling of marriage between husband and wife, is also changing, especially some bloggers on the Internet exaggerate the rights of women's rights, couples encounter some small contradictions and think of divorce, feel that they can still live a chic life, do not think too much about the negative impact of divorce on children and families, changes in thinking, but also lead to the high divorce rate.
Every family has its own scriptures, every family has its own happiness and misfortune, and there are many irresistible factors, the above is just my personal opinion.
Marriage is a castle that needs to be run by both parties, and only understanding, tolerance and support can withstand the ups and downs of life. In the face of marital problems, we can't escape and can't escape, we should face them bravely and actively seek solutions, even if we get divorced and find another one, there will be no trivial matters, and it will be smooth sailing.
Zheng Yuan has a lyric that should be at this time, "There is no one who is right or wrong in love", only who does not know how to cherish whom, feelings are not easy, and do and cherish!