In ancient Chinese families, the identity of maids is particularly special, they are not only the personal maids of the master, but also bear the burden of family honor and disgrace and emotional entanglement. Ruomei in "Do You Know If You Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin", as Minglan 's maid, has experienced various choices and dilemmas, and her story reflects the intricacies of identity, emotions and fate.
This costume drama set in the Qing Dynasty tells the story of the growth and struggle of Minglan the eldest lady of the Sheng family, and Ruomei is one of the key characters, she is both Minglan and her confidant. However, Ruomei's background is not prominent, she comes from a poor family, her father is a down-and-out talent, and the family is not wealthy.
In the Sheng family's back house, Ruomei was originally Changfeng's maid, but for many reasons, she later transferred to Minglan side. The relationship with Chang Feng is not pleasant, and Chang Feng is weak and incompetent to protect her maid, which makes Ruo Mei feel confused about her future. However, by Minglan's side, she found a sense of belonging, but she also fell into a more complex emotional entanglement.
Ruomei has experienced many choices and difficulties in the Sheng family's back house. She didn't want to become Changfeng's concubine, nor did she want to return to Changfeng, because she knew that there was not optimistic about her future. Between Minglan and Changfeng, she chose to stay with Minglan even though it meant that she could only be an ordinary maid.
In her relationship with men, Ruomei has also experienced many misjudgments. Her expectations and disappointments in her father, Changfeng's weakness and incompetence, Sheng Hong's superficial gentleness but self-interest, and Gongsun Baishi's indifference and rationality made her more confused and troubled by her situation every time.
However, Ruomei's dependence and disappointment with Minglan is also a thorn in her heart. She originally thought that Minglan would protect her like a sister, but in the end she found that Minglan could not change her fate, although Minglan was her master, she was also subject to the family's traditions and social pressure, and could not fully satisfy Ruomei.
Ruomei's experience has taught her many lessons and reflections, and she realizes how important it is to be aware of who she is, and how arrogant and ungrounded can lead to deeper difficulties. Her story is also a reminder that life's choices are often not black and white, and need to be carefully considered and examined.
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In ancient society, the fate of maids was often subject to the arrangement of the master and family, but even so, they also had their own thoughts and emotions, and they would also make their own choices in the face of the arrangement of fate. Ruomei's choice is not perfect, but it is the best choice for her in a given situation, and her story also gives us a deeper understanding of the situation and struggles of ancient women.
In short, Ruomei's story tells us that everyone has their own choices and dilemmas, and it is important to have a clear understanding of their own identity, bravely face the challenges of life, and constantly reflect and grow in order to find their own path to happiness.