One person shares a chicken soup for the soul
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We want to say, why is it that the material life is better now, and we have so many troubles?
We would like to say that although it is better now than before, the money is getting harder and harder to make every year.
We want to say that the previous relationship is mended year after year, and finally it can grow old, but the current relationship is broken once and will not be seen for life.
We want to say that in the past, there was a piece of candy, and my heart was sweet, but now the table is full of chicken, duck and fish, and I can no longer feel this sweetness.
Why are we like this? The reason may be that we blindly seek outward, we seek wealth, we seek affection, we seek happiness, we seek everything.
So that's the source of our suffering, we never wonder if we're doing something wrong? Not doing well enough?
A person's life, the most transparent way to live: to seek inward.
1. Seek inward, not more seriously, this is the best way to live.
Xu Li said that in fact, the relationship between herself and her mother has always been not good, and she did not live with her mother when she was a child, and she grew up in her grandmother's house.
The mother has always loved her brother, and in her mother's heart, only the elder brother is her child.
Now that they are together, every time they get along with their mother, Xu Li always can't control her temper and always has an argument with her mother.
In fact, it has always been because Xu Li has asked for something, Xu Li longs to be loved by her mother, understood by her mother, and cared for by her mother.
However, this is the bitter **, so it is the worst way to live.
Until one day Xu Li knew that only seeking inward is the best way to live, since we can't change others, we can only change ourselves.
Not being more honest with yourself, reconciling with yourself, constantly improving your wisdom, and making your life clear, this is the best way to live a person's life.
2. Seek inward and stay away from troubles in life.
Why are more and more people looking inward now? I have begun to learn traditional culture, and that is because only by seeking inward can we stay away from troubles in life.
The relationship between husband and wife is not good, and that is because there are too many complaints, too many harsh criticisms.
The parent-child relationship is not good, because they always want to change each other, or want to control each other's lives.
The relationship between friends is not good, that is to be calculated again and again, who pays more and who pays less?
There are many contradictions between colleagues, and that is because they always want to be in the limelight, and they always want to step on other people's shoulders to climb up.
The relationship with the leader is not good, that is because I always insist on going my own way, and I don't know how to seek inward and improve myself.
Therefore, a person's life can only seek inward, only inward, life will be more happy, only inward, our life will be less disasters and less difficulties, and our life can set sail.
If you find the right direction, all the efforts you make will be meaningful, and you will be able to live a transparent life.
3. Seek to live inwardly, and life will be full of strength.
How often do we long for the other person to understand us? How many times do we long for the other person to care about us?
In fact, we are all too stupid, stupid waiting for others to love us, and often many times we will be disappointed.
There are very few people who take the initiative to love you in your life, so instead of waiting for love, it is better to take the initiative and seek inward, only by constantly improving yourself, can you know how to love? Do you know how to manage happiness?
We will be full of power, whenever there is a contradiction, the first thing we think about is not what we have done wrong?
Knowing how to empathize and think about each other will make the relationship between two people last for a long time.
Therefore, a person who will reap love and happiness often knows how to seek inward and often understands the key to happiness.
Don't wait for love stupidly anymore, have time to improve yourself more, have time to ask inward, but live more transparently.
Fourth, to self-cultivation, can open the door to seek inward, is the best way to live.
How to look inward? We can only cultivate ourselves, cultivate our own virtues, and cultivate our own hearts.
Everything must be based on morality, and if it violates morality, then we must not do it.
Self-cultivation is that the more you want to do, the more you restrain what? The more you want to do, the more you will constrain you?
Maybe we will be very repulsed at the beginning, but time will prove that our choice is right, and our hearts will become full.
If we learn more about self-cultivation, we will gradually integrate into it, and we will not only find ourselves, but we will also find the most suitable way to live.
Maybe the road is destined to be uneven, but it doesn't matter, we prepare for the best, prepare for the worst, and everything will come to the wind.
So go to self-cultivation, self-cultivation is to open the door to inward seeking, we will harvest growth, we will harvest beauty.
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