After drinking this cup of poisonous chicken soup and living with the people at the bottom for a long time, you will have a major misjudgment of the world. Your relatives in the small town told you that big cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen are very scary, and people's hearts are sinister, and you will die without a place to be buried if you go; Your white-collar friend tells you that nine times out of ten, you will lose money when you start a business, and you will be in debt, so it is better to work comfortably; Your parents told you that our family is poor, and we must be honest all our lives, and don't get into trouble, otherwise we will be bullied by others. These seemingly correct, but in fact lack realistic experience, will repeatedly make you **, so that you are like them, trapped in a swamp and unable to turn over. Their behavior and attitude also tend to lead you astray. There are many dick men who worship you as a goddess, so you really think that you are as beautiful as Liu Yifei, and you think that all men in the world will come to lick you; If you stay with low-level women for a long time, you will mistakenly think that all women in the world will ask for a bride price when they get married, and they will all show their teeth and claws like tigresses. Is what you think you think you are? 
From the very beginning of your birth, you are defined as Zhang San, the son of a peasant. So, you resign yourself to your fate, thinking that you will never have a bright future. But if you are told now that you are the reincarnation of Liu Bang, it will immediately become different. Self-fulfilling prophecy is amazing. The reality is often that if you think you are Liu Bang, even if you are Zhang San's physique, you will be bent hard, and in the end, you will really become Liu Bang. So, how to get rid of the poisonous chicken soup of the bottom people? Stay away from the previous circle, change to a new environment, and change to a circle that is completely different from your cognitive thinking. Just like pickled radish, the original you have been soaked in salt water for too long, and the poor qi in your body has penetrated deep into the bone marrow, and now you have to uproot and soak it in clean water to metabolize the salt and reshape your cognition. Don't believe the words of the white-collar workers around you, don't believe the words of the workers, don't believe the words of your parents, and don't believe the meaningless words of people who have never suffered or made money. It is better to be the phoenix tail in the rich area than the chicken head in the poor area. 
The trap of being busy is because you are poor, so you have to spend all your time working to earn money and supplement your family. I go to work normally during the day, and I wash dishes and deliver food at night. As a result, you don't have time to think, and even if you're busy, your pockets are empty. Because you are poor, you can only rent a house in a remote suburb, thinking that you can save a lot of money. But as a result, the four-hour commute to and from work drains all your energy, and when you arrive at the company, you are physically and mentally exhausted, and you want to watch Tik Tok and sleep when you get home. I don't do my job well, and I am scolded by my boss every day. In this way, day by day it enters a vicious circle, and it can no longer break through the counterattack. 
How to get out of this trap? Be sure not to get used to doing repetitive physical work, which will make your body numb, short-sighted, and have no extra energy to think about the future and do things that can really add value to you. Instead, invest in yourself, learn and grow, and stick to one of your core skills. Don't make money in the present, but make money in the future. In addition, even if you don't have much money in your pocket, you have to rent a house near the company. You can fit into a humble room, but you can never get used to a long commute. When you feel very tired from the day, squeezed by the company, and want to quit, the comfortable feeling of walking home in less than ten minutes will immediately wash away the previous troubles. Plus, the convenient distance allows you to get a little more sleep in the morning, so you have plenty of energy to face the day. If you are energetic and happy, your work efficiency will naturally increase, and the results will be immediate. After work in the evening, you can walk a little later, ask the master for advice, and make up for your homework. In this way, a virtuous cycle can be formed. Wait until you get a promotion and a raise, and then change to a better room to break the original dilemma. 
Hurt by the evil of human nature, as the saying goes, the poor give birth to treachery, and the rich grow conscience, this sentence is not unreasonable. When people are poor, they only think about their own interests and do not care about the lives of others. Only when people are rich and have excess resources will they think of giving to others and become more and more kind. The poor will turn against their brothers for a little inheritance; will burn, kill, rob and rape for the sake of his own greed; will trample, calculate, and hurt each other in order to squeeze others; will quarrel from morning to night for a little profit. They don't care about time and face, they have nothing left, only one life left, and they are desperate to fight with you. If you mix in the bottom circle for too long, you will also be contaminated with this kind of anger, bursting with negative energy, flammable and explosive, narrow-minded and selfish. Therefore, it is necessary to selectively join some good communities, good organizations, good energy, and information circles, and make a group of good friends, so as not to be accidentally injured by their sharp blades.