We always try to change, but the willingness to change ≠ the ability to change.
People are often imprisoned by inherent habits, indulged in inner fantasies, do not want to expand their social circles, never reflect on values, and are extremely lacking in adaptability.
10 Signs of a High-Level Life:
1.Be able to grasp the "concentration of time".
2.Begin to see confusion as a great "gilded opportunity".
3.Know how to spend money.
4.Able to get along with difficult people. When we first send friendly signals to those "difficult people", we often find that the other party is not as difficult as we imagined.
5.They try to do things they don't interest in. Many things are "don't know if you don't do it, and only understand when you do it"; After trying it, even if it still doesn't work, the experience itself is a kind of wealth of growth.
6.Always be passionate about life. Life is like a spider's web, one thing accumulates and forms its own history.
7.Know how to balance your own pressure.
8.Be able to see parting as a kind of growth. Parting is not a return to zero, there will always be footprints left.
9.Begin to pay attention to the outside. A mature adult should know how to improve his inner cultivation, and at the same time pay attention to his external image.
10.Don't become unconfident because of comparison. Knowing one's own shortcomings, but not belittleing oneself too much, is the mentality that a high-level person should have.