In recent days, "Hot and Hot" is still swiping the whole network, and its box office has reached 2.9 billion, but the difference is that there is obviously more scolding, and many netizens say that this movie is a bad movie and not worth such a high box office.
Watching some people in the evaluation area scolding, saying that they were deceived by Jia Ling, saying that this was commercial marketing, and saying that there were many vulgar shots in it, etc., I couldn't cry or laugh.
But obviously, after watching this bad movie, I was moved by it, and this is my truest feeling!
Watching a movie is like watching someone else's life, in the movie "Hot and Hot", Le Ying was in a state of long-term rot for the first ten years, and finally broke through herself to become a boxer.
This process only took a few dozen seconds for the movie to pass, but these dozens of seconds were exchanged by Jia Ling through a year of persistence, and the bitterness behind it can be guessed how painful it is even if you haven't experienced it.
When the movie ended, Jia Ling's record footage from more than 200 catties to more than 110 catties in the past year popped up on the big screen, and my tears couldn't be stopped in an instant!
In addition to feeling sorry for Jia Ling's hard work this year, the tears were more shocked and happy for her, because she finally persevered.
Jia Ling will definitely be better in the future, because she deserves better, and the world has never owed everyone who works hard!
"Hot and Hot" is a coming-of-age movie, and its lowest meaning is to hope that everyone can break through themselves, love themselves well, and become a better version of themselves!
Beauvoir, the author of The Second Sex, once said that the attitude towards men and women in this world has never been different, men are encouraged to succeed no matter how old they are, while girls are encouraged to stay in a stable environment and enjoy comfort at birth.
But in recent years, women's growth has been a very hot topic, and now girls are more encouraged to be independent, hard-working, and love themselves.
After watching "Hot and Hot", I realized 6 heart-piercing truths of life!
1.Being a better version of yourself is more rewarding than pleasing others
Le Ying in the movie is a typical people-pleasing personality, before she transforms, she always ignores her own feelings and silently pays for others.
There is a scene in the movie, Haokun asks Le Ying to go out to the park to sell fitness cards, and asks if she is free, Le Ying is obviously free in the afternoon, but she changes it"Available"Two words, this small move can explain Le Ying's inner thoughts at that time.
This kind of careful curry favor is not exchanged for more respect for oneself by others, but on the contrary, it is the bottomless pit of harm caused by others to oneself.
But when Le Ying changes through a year of hard work, she no longer needs to deliberately please others, and others will take the initiative to get close to her, so becoming a better self is more worthy than pleasing others, learn to manage yourself well, you deserve better!
2.It doesn't matter if you win or lose, what matters is the growth in the process
Many people are afraid of failure, so they will not have the courage to change, but in fact, it is not important to win or lose, what matters is the process, in the process of change, we have already won!
In the final game, Le Ying knew that she couldn't win, but she insisted on not giving up to finish the game, and when she finally left the court, the audience applauded her, and her eyes were full of incredulity!
Therefore, winning or losing in life is not important, but the courage to stand up again after losing is more admirable!
3.A life that knows how to refuse is not easy to be handled
Le Ying used to be a bad person with low self-esteem and didn't know how to refuse.
Her biological sister forced her to transfer the house under her name to her in order for her child to go to school, and she didn't refuse! The best friend caught up with her boyfriend and asked her to be her bridesmaid, and she didn't refuse! In order for her cousin Doudou to be able to turn positive smoothly for her work, she maliciously edited her **, and she didn't dare to accept it silently!
If you don't know how to refuse in life, you will only be pinched by others! If you don't like something, you have to learn to refuse, and if you have your own opinions, others won't think you're a bully.
4.When you really work hard, everyone will come and help you
Even a close relative will not always pity and sympathize with a weak person! Only if you really work hard, others will agree with you from the bottom of their hearts!
The gym owner played by Sha Yi in the movie only regarded Le Ying as a gym consumer at first, but when Le Ying successfully lost weight through her own efforts for more than half a year and became more and more powerful in boxing, the boss actually gradually recognized her and helped her participate in the competition.
To quote a quote from the movie: If you are not particularly lucky, then please work hard, and only after hard work will you know if you can win once!
5.Destiny is always in your own hands
Psychologist Wu Zhihong once said: "The meaning of life lies in choice, and the process of continuous self-selection is the process of becoming oneself, which is one of our most important life desires." ”
Destiny is always in our own hands, and we can choose how to live our lives, decadence or hard work? It's all up to you!
Don't always blame others or the environment for problems, change is always up to you whether you are willing to do it! The control of life has always been in our own hands.
6.A person who knows how to love himself is the beginning of transformation
When Haokun finally invited the changed Le Ying to have a meal together, Le Ying said: It depends on the mood.
When a girl begins to put her feelings first, that is the first step for her to learn to love herself.
The Courage to Be Hated" has a saying: I care more about how I am doing than how others see me.
People, don't always live in other people's expectations, just live once in life, love yourself well, and strive to be the person you want to be!
Write to the end. In Dong Qing's autobiography, there is a sentence that impresses me very deeply: The final decision on who you can become is nothing more than those three words - yourself.
Just like the sentence in the movie, fate is responsible for shuffling the cards, and it is always yourself who plays the cards!
So in the new year, be brave and win once and become a better version of yourself!
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