In life, no one can always have a smooth ride, and no one can always be on the upper hand. There will always be people and things that make us fall into a low point, feeling difficult, bitter and tired.
In our lives, we need to be brave enough to face all the things that go our way and tell ourselves that we will get through them and get better.
Everything we experience in life is predestined, and for better or worse, we need to learn not to complain, not to resent, and to learn to think calmly about our situation. Let yourself be silent, silently endure grievances, and find solutions to problems through your own strength, so that you can get out of the trough.
Even if we are at a low point in life, don't rely on others, because people's hearts are unpredictable. We can only rely on ourselves, and that's the most important thing.
Life is a long road, with ups and downs, ups and downs. When we hit a low point, we may feel helpless and lost, but remember that at this time, don't bother anyone.
1.Human affection is warm and cold, only self-knowledge.
Human affection is like paper, sometimes thick, sometimes weak. When we are going well, there seem to be countless friends around us, but in the trough moment, we can see who is sincere to us and who is false to us. Some people, only accompanied in good times, disappear in bad times. Therefore, only self-knowledge is the warmth and coldness of human feelings. Don't expect help from others, first of all, go over yourself.
2.When you encounter something, you will know who is sincere to you and who is false to you.
Only when people are in trouble can they see true friends. Those who surrounded you at your peak may not be able to lend a helping hand when you're at your lows. And those friends who usually seem inconspicuous may give you strength at a critical moment. Therefore, when you encounter a low point, do not complain about the cold state of the world, but cherish those who genuinely care about you, and at the same time, learn to face difficulties yourself.
3.When people are at a low point, they do not bother others, but precipitate themselves.
When we encounter a low point, we tend to feel lost and helpless, but this is the time when our willpower and independence can be exercised the most. Don't ask for help from others easily, as everyone has their own difficulties in life, and they may not be able to give you enough help. On the contrary, we should learn to settle ourselves, calm down and analyze the problem, and find a solution to the problem. Only then can we truly rise from the trough.
In short, when you hit a low point, don't bother anyone. Learn to face difficulties and solve problems on your own. In the process, you will know yourself better and will be stronger. Believe me, as long as you persevere, you will definitely be able to get out of the trough and meet a better future. As said in "Sister Peach": "The sweetest joy in life is the fruit of sorrow." The purest things in life come from suffering. ”