Recently, an incident in Shanghai about a female high school teacher suspected of cheating with a 16-year-old male high school student has sparked heated discussions from all walks of life. As one of the sacred professions in society, this incident has left a negative impression on people, however, in fact, the vast majority of teachers do not engage in such ** behavior. A netizen said in **: "Most normal teachers will choose to quickly avoid when they hear students praise their good looks, and even make some strange moves to avoid this embarrassment." Netizens in the comment area also said that the liking relationship between teachers and students is incredible, because everyone generally believes that the relationship between teachers and students should be a "natural enemy". When I think back to my high school days, people only have respect for teachers, and after adolescence, there are very few young teachers on campus. Perhaps, young teachers should be given priority in teaching elementary and junior high school students. When noticing misconduct, some people choose to wear ugly clothes to avoid unnecessary entanglement.
Most normal teachers choose to quickly avoid students' praise to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings. The liking relationship between a teacher and a student may seem strange to most people, and it is often believed that the relationship between a teacher and a student should be a sacred one, not a romantic one. When people think back to their student days, they have more respect for their teachers, and it is hard to imagine that there will be other connections between teachers and students that go beyond the teacher-student relationship. Post-adolescent students also have little access to younger teachers, which may also be a way to avoid inappropriate relationships. When someone is found to be showing signs of malbehavior, some people choose to take strange actions to avoid embarrassment.
In a few cases, however, there have been cases of transcendent relationships between teachers and students. Some netizens revealed that their high school table mates had a relationship with a physical education teacher, but this relationship ended with the separation after graduating from high school. Not only that, but there are other cases, such as a similar emotional entanglement between a girl in a class upstairs and a physics teacher. These complex relationships between teachers and students are often difficult to understand, after all, in school, the relationship between teachers and students should be purely academic.
Some students have special emotions when they are confronted with handsome teachers. Some netizens told the story of their physics teacher in high school, who was tall and handsome, which attracted the attention of many female classmates. He fell in love with his chemistry teacher at school, and the two often commuted to and from work together, and they were inseparable. This kind of emotional entanglement between teachers and students is ironic, but it also reflects the complexity of the relationship between teachers and students in some special situations.
Some netizens shared their special interactions with their teachers, saying that they had fought a "guerrilla war" with their teachers for three years. In contrast, today's students seem to have more courage to communicate with their teachers, which was unimaginable at the time. Some teachers say that when they see students exhibiting strange behavior, they just want students to be able to distance themselves and try to avoid unnecessary entanglements.
Today, the relationship between teacher and student should remain sacred. The liking or relationship between teachers and students often brings a series of problems and troubles, which not only affect the parties involved, but also easily attract public attention and controversy. It is hoped that every educator and student will realize that the relationship between teachers and students should be one of respect and academic exchange, and not some other form of relationship.
Through these real cases and the insights of netizens, we have re-examined the special relationship between teachers and students, and the current society's attitude towards teacher-student interactions has become more cautious and rigorous. The relationship between teacher and student should be pure and sacred, avoiding other forms of confusion. Educators and students should respect each other, maintain an appropriate distance, and work together to create a good learning atmosphere.