Li Xiang made a comeback live broadcast, which was her first "comeback" after announcing her retirement.
At the same time, Wang Shiling, a daughter who has been raised by Li Xiangfu, is spending her winter vacation in China and is shooting blockbusters for magazines.
Li Xiang once said in public that a woman must not lack one thing when she is old, that is, to make herself rich. When you are young, find a job that will support you and allow you to live a decent life.
That's exactly what she demanded of herself.
At the same time, Wang Shiling, who was rich all the way by her, became the envy of many people.
Children who are "rich" with their parents' wealth have taken a completely different route from ordinary people. The question is, can a child who is "raised" with the material wealth of his parents still be able to maintain such wealth and dignity when he grows up?
What exactly is a rich child?
The people once commented: Real wealth has nothing to do with money.
Raising children is to let children see more of the world.
What does it mean to have seen the world? In fact, to see the world is to see what real life looks like, to see the various states of life, and to see the faces of all living beings.
1. True enrichment is the enrichment of character and soul.
In 2017, he was admitted to Tsinghua University with a score of 744, and the president of Tsinghua University came to pick him up in person.
At that time, a journalist asked him: Are you afraid to discuss your family? After hearing this, Pang Zhongwang said: "I don't think my family has anything to say, every one of my relatives is so good."
I was born into such a family, my mother was very kind to me, in fact, I feel that I am more fortunate than some children, because their mother is not always with them, and my mother, I want to see, can be seen at any time. ”
Since I was a child, I feel that my mother taught me a lot, that is, what I face, I have to solve something, because people always have to go on. Sometimes, I can even do a math problem from morning to night, but that kind of thing is actually very mind-working. Since I was a child, my mother taught me to be a very optimistic person, and my mother often said that people should look forward. ”
Despite his poor family and a rough fate, he and his mother still rejected the kindness of well-wishers to sponsor him to go to college.
All the misfortunes may have become a stepping stone for him to be better, although his mother did not give him abundant material things, but gave him great love, so that his heart was full of energy from an early age.
This is the real wealth of children, giving children real priceless wealth. The mother raised a child with both ability and integrity with her optimism and open-mindedness.
Second, to enrich children, we must let children see different worlds and see what life looks like, so that they can be truly spiritually rich.
Guo Jingjing, who was once known as the queen of diving, although she married into a wealthy family, she and her husband Huo Qigang still took their children to plant seedlings, and the family of three bent over in the mud under the scorching sun.
She said that this is done to educate children and let them understand that although they live in a happy era of food and clothing, they still need to know where food comes from, learn to cherish it, and learn to be content.
Guo Jingjing once said that she suffered a lot when she was a child, so she also wanted her children to suffer some hardships appropriately, so that they could understand the difficulties of life from an early age.
Although there are conditions for raising children in luxury, they insist on not giving children "special treatment". In terms of children's material, Guo Jingjing is very simple, this simplicity is not deliberately frugal, but more like the choice and transmission of values. Only by allowing a child to get close to the real side of life can he have the courage to take on life alone in the future.
I have to say that the real elite class understands the true meaning of "wealth" better.
3. Enriching children is not only financial and material enrichment, but also spiritual and character enrichment.
The former vice president of JD.com, ALS fighter, Cai Lei, and his wife Duan Rui, if it weren't for ALS, we probably wouldn't know this couple.
A reporter once asked Duan Rui: Did he choose Cai Lei because he was rich. And Duan Rui replied with a smile: As soon as I was born, I had enough money in this life.
Her atmosphere, wisdom, intelligence, cleverness, dignified, elegance and other qualities are not superficial beauty piled up by money.
It's the inner beauty that comes from the inside out, from the heart.
Duan Rui is a different "rich second generation", she is interested in biology, chemistry, economics, and science. She had the conditions to eat, drink, and dress up, but she chose the hardest and most boring study.
Her "richness" is reflected in her interesting and knowledgeable, generous and unpretentious; It is also reflected in the calmness of every major event; Only those who have seen the world and are confident in their hearts will have such psychological qualities, calm and courageous, not panicked, and responsible.
After Cai Lei's diagnosis, Duan Rui said: The heart can be broken, but the hand can't be stopped, after she experienced sadness and collapse, she calmly faced the reality and did every trivial thing seriously.
The real enrichment is to cultivate character.
When Cai Lei filed for divorce, she chose not to give up, treat each other with all sincerity, and help each other in the same boat. Her nobility is reflected in elegance in good times and calmness in adversity.
Written at the end: The real wealth of children is to help children recognize the truth of life and let them explore the world in their own way, which is the wealth that children will use for a lifetime, and is the richest parenting for children.