In this fast-paced era, although people's lives are getting better and better, the headache of singles is increasing day by day. InRural, the singles problem is even more poignant, there are currently 40 singles in their 30s, LingRuralParents are anxious. However, the singles issue is notRuralexclusive,RuralThere have also been a series of puzzling phenomena that make people feel very distressed.
This yearRuralA strange phenomenon has arisen: inWax MoonThere are a lot of people who get married. This is because next year is the "Year of No Spring", and there is a folk saying that it is called the "Year of the Widow", believing that this time is not suitable for happy events, especially for marriage and housewarming. Although modern people are skeptical of this claim, inRuralMany people still cling to this traditional notion. They want to enjoy the festive atmosphere at the important moment of their life, so they don't hesitate to stay earlyWax MoonWeddings. Maybe that's tooRuralA peculiar manifestation of a departure from the pace of urbanization.
In the past, family planning policies were tightened, and in order to escape punishment, people had to secretly give birth to children and had to hide. However, now that the country has opened up its fertility policy to encourage multiple births, people are reluctant to have children. The cost of raising children in modern times is getting higher and higher, and young people are facing huge life pressure, and they have generally experienced a lot of hardships, and they dare not easily have children to give them a good life. Some people are worried that having children will affect their careers, and some people put forward various "reasons", so more and more people choose not to have children.
Many people are unwilling to fulfill their filial piety when their parents are alive, even for the sake ofRetirementAnd the quarrel continued. For example, in my neighbor's house, the three brothers take turns raising their parents, but they often quarrel and quarrel. The other day, the weather was very cold, and the old man sat in the cold wind and had no heating equipment. But after the old man died, the children and grandchildren didFanfareFunerals were held, performances were invited, and there were more items to be given to the elderly. Instead of extravagant pomp after death, it is better to be filial before death, accompany your parents, and give them a better life.
NowadaysRuralThe daughter-in-law is getting harder and harder to serve. They don't want to do any housework when they enter the door, they just want to enjoy food and a comfortable life. They dress up beautifully all day long, either shopping or playing mahjong and cards. When I returned home, I was dissatisfied with my in-laws. They even compare who buys more brand-name perfumes and brandsShoes, brand-name clothes, and went to ** travel again. They only focus on themselves and never take the needs of their families to heart. Since there are more males than females,Bride priceIt is expensive, and the in-laws dare not offend their daughter-in-law. Therefore, they have to swallow their anger, and can only accommodate and indulge their willfulness.
NowadaysRuralThe situation of people holding banquets is getting more and more serious. In the pastRuralBanquets are only held on important occasions, such as moving to a new home, getting married, getting married, etc. There are not many gifts between relatives, usually between yuan, and the maximum is only 100 yuan. And now,RuralThere are more and more banquets, and some people have to hold banquets every year on their birthdays, such as children's full moons, 100-day banquets, old people's birthdays, children admitted to college, car purchases, etc. Some people even held a "sow cub wine", which is ridiculous. Although this behavior is unreasonable, the neighbors still have to go to the feast, otherwise they will offend people. The cost of the banquet is forRuralFor families, this is a huge burden and even leads to a situation of indebtedness. It is hoped that the state can introduce relevant policies to rectify the atmosphere of banquets, reduce all kinds of bizarre celebrations, and allow ordinary people to reduce their financial burden.
RuralNot only is it troubled by the problem of singles, but there are also other distressing phenomena, such as the year-end marriage tide, reluctance to have more children, unfilial piety during life, daughters-in-law becoming more and more squeamish, and a large number of banquets. These oddities are highlightedRuralThe community is inSocialMany problems and challenges faced in the process of change. I hope there will be more attention and support in the futureRuralPeople bring better living conditions and a sense of well-being.