I am afraid it is appropriate to use the adjectives that are worrying about the three major phenomena, a lotRuralRegions are experiencing these problems. AlthoughSocialThe pace of progress is developing rapidly in the city, butRuralBut it seems to have been forgotten by time, and he is still in trouble. This makes people sigh at the cruelty and helplessness of reality.
PreviousRuralDaughters-in-law are usually models of meekness and virtue, not only obeying the arrangements of their husbands and in-laws, but also taking care of the household andlifeTrivia. However, nowadaysRuralThe status of the daughters-in-law has changed dramatically and has become more and more delicate. They are no longer willing to submit to traditional family roles, but are more inclined to pursue personal freedom and happiness.
As a result of urbanization, men often choose to leave their hometowns to work in cities in order to make a living and to meet the needs of their families. And stay inRuralWives enjoy the freedom to be separated from their husbands. Housework has become difficult, and they would rather go out and hang out or play cards than take on the responsibilities of traditional roles. Such a phenomenon is inRuralAbound.
A real example of this is my cousin-in-law. Her son is 1.8 meters tall, outstanding, talented, but he has never been able to find a suitable wife. In the end, they had to be introduced by a matchmaker to marry a divorced woman who already had two children. The bride price and the pomp of the wedding are no less than the first marriage, and the bride is so pampered after she marries that she doesn't need to do anything herself. They can even go out to play cards during pregnancy, and their husbands or mothers-in-law will kindly bring them a variety of fruits and snacks. theseRuralThe daughters-in-law live carelesslylife, I don't have much pursuit of making money and career, I don't know about themlifeWhat's the real point.
In manyRuralarea, especially those in remote and impoverished placesEconomyThe situation is extremely worrying. Therefore, in order to make a living and the needs of their families, young people have no choice but to leave their hometowns and go to unfamiliar cities to earn a living. This has led to a large number ofLeft-behind childrenIssue.
Whenever I come backRuralI can see the old people and a group of children, but there are very few young people. The number of left-behind children is increasing, and the time they spend separating from their parents is getting longer. And the old people often don't have itEducationChildren's abilities and methods lead to many children's poor learning status, and even boredom in school. They often decide to give up their studies at the middle school level and enter the school too earlySocialWorking to earn a living, this vicious circle has almost becomeRuralRegional normality.
Such a phenomenon is undoubtedly irresponsible to the next generation, and it is also rightRuralObstacles to regional development. theseLeft-behind childrenThe employment pressures and survival challenges they face in the future will be even more difficult, and their future is full of uncertainty.
InRuralregion,MarriageIt's not an easy thing to do. Due to the high bride price and wedding costs, let a lotFarmersThe family has almost exhausted their savings for many years. In order to earn money to support their families, many men choose to leave their hometowns to work in other places. And due to fare and working time constraints, they often only go home a few times a year. The length of this separation has led to the estrangement of the couple's feelings.
Modern societyThe rapid development of the Internet and the popularization of the Internet have brought more opportunities and ** to people. RuralRegions are no exception. Many couples are gradually estranged because of a long period of separation and the outside world, and finally choose to divorce. A real-life example of this is a friend of mine who is beautiful and has a great build. Her husband works in other places to support his family, while the beautiful woman is in the city with her two childrenRenting a houseSchool. She said they could only spend about 20 days a year together, and she had to take care of the children, but she also had to deal with themEconomyon the distress. Later, she met a man who spent a lot of money on her on the Internet, and he not only gave her 100,000 yuan to her family, but also bought her a house. The long-term poverty and separation made it difficult for her to resist this kind of **, and finally chose to divorce.
Such a divorce phenomenon is inRuralNot uncommon, many families are overwhelmed and broken up for a variety of reasons. Divorce not only causes great harm to both spouses, but also directly affects the growth and future of their children.
In the face of these three strange phenomena, everyone is interested inRuralOpinions may also vary. Some people think that rural daughters-in-law are becoming more and more delicate becauseModern societyThey have the right to choose their own value for their individual rightslifeManner; And there are those who believe that this phenomenon is family andSocialThe imbalance of values leads to the need to be paid attention to and considered.
ForLeft-behind childrenThe solution of the problem, some people advocate strengtheningRuralEducationinput, provide betterSchoolswithEducationResource; There are also calls for increased attention and support to minimize itFarmersThe necessity of going out to work.
In the case of the increasing phenomenon of divorce, some people believe that the communication and exchange between husband and wife should be strengthened, and the warmth and stability of the family should be valued; There are also calls for changeRuralThe development model provides more jobs and reducesEconomyPressure.
In short,RuralThe problems faced cannot be ignored. Only by stepping up efforts to solve these problems can we do soRuralregional development and people'slifeBring about positive change. Either ** orSocialAll walks of life need to work together to find the right fitRuralMethods and directions of development. Only in this way can we letRuralTruly progress and prosperity.