As the saying goes: "Men are afraid of entering the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man." "In a way, marriage can be called a woman's second reincarnation. Marrying a good man means marrying a good way of life. Most women, the first quarter of their lives, are spent in the family of origin, and the last three-quarters are spent with the man who chooses to marry. If you make the wrong choice, your future life will be a period of hardship that cannot be used by outsiders. Life is a long road, so let's grow old with the right person. For a woman, the most important investment in life is to choose the right husband. 
The husband has a good character, and the woman has a good faceA few days ago, a friend had just been discharged from the hospital and told me such a story about a woman who was diagnosed with early stomach cancer, and the operation cost 80,000 yuan. When she first heard the news, the woman was still glad and silently recited, fortunately it was early. The operation required her husband's signature, but when the woman was lying on the hospital bed to prepare for the operation, she found that her husband had not only failed to sign, but had also taken all the 80,000 yuan she had prepared for the operation. They have been married for 2 years, and the 80,000 yuan is all the savings of the woman and her husband, of which 20,000 yuan is borrowed from relatives. The woman returns home in a rage to find that the man is gone. I put down a note with three words written on it: Let's get a divorce. What's ridiculous is that there is also a reminder for electricity and water bills next to it. The woman said that most of those savings were saved by herself, and she originally wanted to use them to have children in the past two years, but she didn't expect to use them in advance, but it was such a result. Later, after some tossing, the woman's surgery was still done, and her mother's family managed to help her raise money. A friend said: "That woman's face looks like she has suffered a lot, dry and sallow, rarely smiles, and she is in her twenties, but she lives like a forty-year-old person, and at first glance she is dragged down by her husband's character." "Meeting a man with poor character is really a woman's greatest misfortune. Fortunately, they have only been married for 2 years, and fortunately, they have no children yet, and if it takes a long time, it will be an unspeakable torment. In marriage, a woman's face is a mirror of a man. How a man treats a woman, no matter how well he disguises it, can see the clues from the woman's face. With a man with poor character, a woman rarely has a relaxed expression on her face, and her eyebrows and eyes are always habitually wrinkled. With a man with good character, the expression on the woman's face is stretched, with a smile on her eyebrows and eyes, her face is gentle, and she looks more and more beautiful year by year. When you find that a woman is getting uglier and uglier after marriage, then her husband is likely to eat, drink, prostitute and gamble with poor character. The husband's character is high-quality, and for a woman, it is more effective than the best skin care products. 
The husband has a warm temper and communicates well in everythingMarried life is indispensable for all kinds of contradictions. In the past 20 years, the two of them grew up in different family environments, and suddenly living together will inevitably have all kinds of bumps and bumps. Some couples, bumping into each other, have a big fight. The temper is like a volcano, and it is difficult to communicate well with it. I have seen a husband and wife, a small quarrel for three days, and a big quarrel for five days. Every time the man quarrels, he slams the door and walks out, leaving the woman alone at home to shed tears. The woman said that if one thing did not go his way, he would lose his temper, and the voice was so loud that the whole community could hear it. He speaks unpleasantly, and sometimes he even hits people when he gets excited. Later, they had children, and the man's temper still hasn't changed, and he also knows that many times it's his own badness, but the habits that have been accumulated over the years can be changed if they are changed. A woman can only do her best to protect her children, and everything goes well with her husband, for fear that if she is not careful, her husband's temper will turn into a bad temper, leaving psychological trauma for the child at a young age. I have also seen a husband and wife, the husband is a big boss, he has a gentle temper but is not easy to mess with, but he is extremely gentle with his little wife. From what food to eat tomorrow to what area of house to buy, the wife will communicate well with her husband, and sometimes even if the wife forgets to say, the husband will talk to her every day. Even when they quarrel, the two of them talk well, and if the husband is emotional, he will try to calm his emotions, for fear of hurting his wife and children. With a mild-tempered man, there is no need to be afraid of conflicts between two people. Because people get along with each other, it's normal to have disagreements. The important thing is not to avoid contradictions, but to understand that not everything can go according to one's own heart, marriage is a long road, the husband is a little patient, knows how to understand, and the wife has the motivation to live well. The husband has a gentle temper, and everything is easy to communicate. 
The husband is capable, and he is not afraid of hardshipThe more you watch, the more you will find that most women, as long as they can see the hope that their lives are getting better day by day, are willing to bet on their youth and spend a few years with a man to endure hardships. Even if the man has nothing now, as long as he is capable, willing to work hard, and has potential, the woman will not feel scared and anxious about her future life. The most fearful thing is that there is nothing now, and there will still be nothing in ten years. I saw such a complaining post on the Internet. The blogger is a woman who has been married for 10 years, and when she was 20 years old, she married the senior she liked at the beginning. I thought I would be happy for a lifetime, but I didn't expect this senior to be "Adou who can't be helped". has been married for 10 years, and the annual living expenses are earned by the blogger herself, even if she is pregnant and waiting to give birth at home, she has never been idle. Because the husband only knows how to talk sweetly, his ability to work is very worrying. When he first got married, the blogger was still in school, so he often comforted his husband, saying that it was just luck that hadn't come yet, and someone would always see his shining points. But two years have passed, the husband still has no achievements, the salary has been stagnant, the blogger has just graduated, and when the two of them were the most miserable and poor, the blogger secretly went out to borrow money to survive. Five years have passed, the blogger has made more and more money, but the husband has become more and more comfortable, and the once ambitious ambition has long become a joke. The blogger said that such a marriage is very tiring. In fact, she didn't care about the money, and she didn't want his work ability to be particularly good, but at least, after 10 years, he should have made some progress. After getting married, the lives of two people are tied together, and it all depends on the economic strength of both parties. No woman hopes that a man will stand still for ten years, his life will not change, and even eating and wearing good food is a luxury. Social changes are too fast, and the more you experience, the more you will find that money is the proof of a person's strength, and it is also the foundation for a family to get better and better. The husband is capable, and he is not afraid of hard life. The husband's ability is weak, and no matter how deep the relationship is, it will be worn away by reality. Tu Lei said that a woman is a princess for one day, a queen for ten months, and a lifetime of hard work. Indeed, a married woman is indispensable to all kinds of worries. In addition to the sweet happiness on the wedding day and the patient care when pregnant and waiting to give birth, in fact, what women need more is the importance of married life in the future, and every thoughtfulness and tenderness of men in their small lives. A good husband can make a woman spend most of the year smiling. A good husband can make a woman understand the warmth of the family and understand what it is like to be loved. A good husband can make a woman gradually grow into a better wife and mother in the days that are repeated year after year. A good husband can make a good wife.
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