The woman asks for a bride price 1880,000, and the man gives 2660,000, because the woman's move at the time of engagement made the man regret the marriage on the spot.
This happened to a relative of my colleague's family, in November 2023.
To be honest, according to my colleague, thisThe man is 33 years old, and his conditions are very good in all aspects, his career is successful, and his family background is okay.
He is the only child in the family, and his parents are heartbroken about getting married and having children. While he was resting, he quickly arranged a blind date.
But fortunately, the woman is very beautiful and temperamental, and she has a good figure, she is a yoga teacher and has several yoga shops of her own.
After contact between the two sidesWe were very satisfied with each other, and after getting along for a while, we thought about the next step.
The man's parents were very anxious about the boy's marriage, so they couldn't wait to meet the girl's parents.
Through chatting, I learned that although the woman's family is a rural hukou, her family background is okay, and there is a younger sister who is going to school at home.
After the pleasantries,The boy's parents asked about the woman's customs, and the woman's parents said that the bride price on our side is generally quite high, and if it is low, it is not good-looking, so it is 1880,000 for it, we have a car here and 660 thousand.
However, the man's family is indeed a good family, and he said: So be it, anyway, it's all for the children, I'll give you 2660,000, and the pressure on children's lives can also be less in the future.
So, this matter is so decided.
In a blink of an eye, it was the day of the marriage, and the man's family came to the door with a lot of things, all kinds of wine, milk, and snacks, and pulled two carts.
Both sides also invited their own friends and some relatives who had a good relationship.
After you and I mouthed all kinds of politeness, the scene became lively, and the rural flowing water banquet also began to be served.
When the man saw that the woman was still not seated, he went outside to look for the girl.
Who knew that when I saw the girl talking to an old man not far away, she had a disgust on her face and a bad attitude.
I saw that the old man was wearing outdated but clean clothesEven the hair is obviously neatly groomed, but the mental state does not look very good, and the whole person is wilted
The boy didn't know what was going on, so he stepped forward and asked what was going on? But as soon as the girl saw the boy coming, she hurriedly pulled him away.
The girl said indignantly: "This is my grandfather, and the relationship with my mother has not been good since childhood, and my mother trembles with anger when she sees him." And he still has a strange smell on him, so my mother didn't let him come, for fear that your parents would dislike and laugh at him. ”
After saying that, he said to the old man, ".Hurry up and go home, your relatives and friends are here, don't let you come, you have to come, don't embarrass me. ”
After returning home, the girl told her mother, and her mother quickly explainedWhen I was young, my father-in-law was always very bad to herAlwaysAnd her mother-in-law has been bullying her。So our family doesn't care about him, he also has several diseases, and there is always a strange smell on his body.
After finishing speaking, the boy's family understood it, and then said:As parents, how can your family treat the elderly like this. Even if the relationship is not good, it can't change the fact that the elders can't be changed, how come even the least respect has not been reflected in you.
The boy didn't think of himselfThe future wife, to her own elders, turned out to have this attitude, just because her mother didn't like her grandfather, she denied the identity of her grandfather and father.
So, the boy was silent for a while and spoke to the woman's parents; “I know that you have always treated me like your own son, with a lot of love and expectation for me. However, after much consideration, I decided that we were not a good fit to be together, so I had to make this difficult decision.
I want to make it clear to you that this is not because I don't value your feelings, but because I don't think we're fit to be a couple. I hope you will understand my decision and forgive me for being inconsiderate.
Finally, I apologize once again and wish you all good health and happiness. ”
Then he turned around and went out to say to his relatives and friends who were eating, ".I would like to express my deepest apologies to everyone who is here. I know that my decision was a surprise to all of you, and it has caused confusion and inconvenience to everyone
I am well aware of the impact of the resignation on both families, relatives and friends, and I understand the disappointment and confusion it has caused.
Here, I would like to express my gratitude to all those who care and support me. At the same time, I sincerely hope that everyone will understand my decision and forgive me for my inconsiderability.
Finally, I apologize once again to all of you, and ask everyone to bring back the gifts you have sent when you return from dinnerI look forward to your next engagement party as promised. ”
The friends looked at each other after hearing this, and they didn't know what was going on.
Then the man left with the bride price.
Let's talk about the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the daughter-in-law, no matter how bad it is, can you determine the identity of a grandfather and father? Everyone said that this man's approach is right?
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