Some men, the more you treat him, the more he doesn't cherish you, but the attitude of being like a detached, the more you want to get close to him, the more he avoids you.
In fact, no one can control the matter of feelings. It's like the saying: "I'm so good to you, why don't you treat me a little better".
In fact, in a relationship, some men will suddenly become enthusiastic about women, not because they have changed their minds, but because they have another conspiracy.
So what are their "conspiracies" for such men? Let's take a look!
Give you hope and let you take the initiative to break up.
A person's true maturity is to realize that there are some things that you can't achieve no matter how hard you try, so you just let it go. —Anonymous.
Feelings can never be fought for by themselves, after all, love is a matter of two people.
But if a man suddenly becomes very enthusiastic about you and makes you feel very warm, he also says that he wants to get back together with you. In fact, such a man doesn't really love you, he just wants you to take the initiative to break up.
Because men like to threaten women with breakups the most in their relationships, he knows that the biggest characteristic of women is soft-heartedness.
So he uses this way to make the woman take the initiative to break up, as long as the woman proposes to break up, then he can be with this woman smoothly.
Therefore, the man suddenly becomes passionate about the woman, not really wants to get back together with the woman, but has another conspiracy.
Such a man is very selfish, he loves only himself. So if there is a man who is very passionate about you and also says that he wants to get back together with you, it means that he has never really loved you at all.
So don't be too stupid in your relationship and don't always take a man's words seriously.
Divert your attention and use a warm attitude to divert your attention.
The man suddenly became enthusiastic about women, not because he had changed his mind, but because he had other schemes, but we just didn't find out.
When a man suddenly becomes enthusiastic about you, it is not because he has a change of heart, but because he wants to divert your attention with an enthusiastic attitude.
In a relationship, when a man suddenly becomes enthusiastic about you, it means that you are already in his pocket. That's why he's so enthusiastic about you.
Maybe at first, you were just chatting with each other, but as time went on, he stopped shouting at you like he used to.
At this time, if you want to stay with him too, then you need to use some special means to make him enthusiastic about you again.
For example, in the course of your chat, let him focus on some topics that he is not interested in. Or maybe ask him to say more about you while you're chatting.
As long as you can do these things, then it is only a matter of time before men become enthusiastic about you.
I want to win your forgiveness through passion.
In a relationship, when a woman is most vulnerable, it is after a man betrays you. Because for a woman, feelings are where she is most vulnerable, and once her world collapses, then she becomes nothing.
When a man betrays you, he will start to become very passionate about you in order to win back your heart. In fact, such a man knows very well in his heart that it is very difficult for you to change your mind.
The reason why they suddenly become enthusiastic about you is because they want to win your forgiveness through their passion. Because they're afraid, they're afraid that you'll be nothing after you leave him. So they'll show that they're very enthusiastic about you.
For such a man, when you find that he is starting to be particularly enthusiastic about you, don't rush to choose to forgive him. Because that's how they want to get your forgiveness.