You take your granddaughter to rent a house, we are inconvenientOkay
Daughters-in-law are not necessarily soft persimmons, and every mother-in-law has her own way of looking at her daughter-in-law. While they may say they would treat their daughters-in-law as if they were their own daughters, not many can actually do that.
If they have biological daughters, it is difficult for them to be completely fair to their two daughters. If they don't have a biological daughter, they may love their daughter-in-law even more. For daughters-in-law, they are somewhat embarrassed in the eyes of their mother-in-law.
Women marry into a man's family because they love him, and if there is no love, few people will be willing to be wronged in their in-laws' family. However, there is a limit to what each person can bear, and once this limit is exceeded, the family becomes unstable.
Zhang Ailing once said: "The origin and extinction of the fate, the fate is strong and the fate is weak, we can't control it, but we can cherish it." "Women can't predict whether the man they choose is right or wrong, and they can't ** whether he can take responsibility in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
All she can do is cherish every moment with him and leave no regrets no matter what the outcome is.
What a woman may regret is that her husband is too stupid and her mother-in-law lacks principles and proportions. Xia Shi bought a wedding house by herself, but when her sister-in-law divorced, her mother-in-law wanted to encroach on it. Men are more realistic than women.
When housing prices were at their lowest, Xia Shi bought a house of her own, and her parents complained to her, "You are a girl, what kind of house do you buy?" Buying a house is a matter for the man's family, and if you have the money to buy a house, it is better to save it yourself. ”
But after the house price, the parents' tone changed again, "My daughter still has a vision, and now the house price has risen so much, you can't afford to buy it." Because she has her own house, when Xia Shi chooses a partner, she no longer only looks at whether the other party has a car and a house, but asks the other party to give her enough love.
After all, there is no such thing as a marriage without love. After having love, Xia Shi has a house again, and as for the car, he can buy it at any time. Xia Shi thinks that his marriage is within reach.
When she met Li Miao, she knew that his family didn't have much money, and his parents were ordinary retired workers, and their pensions were not much. Xia Shi didn't expect that, she only hoped that Li Miao could be good to her wholeheartedly.
Li Miao does not admit that he is an extremely realistic person. He chose to be with Xia Shi, firstly because Xia Shi has a house, and secondly because her parents have a pension and medical insurance.
But he never told anyone about it. He would say to everyone, "I'm really in love with Xia Shi, no matter what she has or nothing, even if it is the end of the world, my feelings for her will not change." ”
Xia Shi is innocent, but he doesn't know that Li Miao's love is conditional. She thought she had found true love, but when she got married, she offered to hold the wedding in her own house, eliminating the bride price, wedding reception and wedding photos, and the honeymoon was not required.
Li Miao was so grateful that he couldn't speak, but he was thinking in his heart, this is really a stupid woman, she doesn't want anything, she simply picked up a daughter-in-law. However, the words in Li Miao's mouth were what Xia Shi wanted to hear, he said that he was a blessing from his previous life, and if he could marry such a good daughter-in-law, he would always love her and not hurt her or betray her.
Although Xia Shi's parents have reservations about this marriage, they always remind their daughter to be careful, and the son-in-law does not seem to be simple. But Xia Shi firmly believes in the relationship between them and resolutely defends his choice.
Eventually, she and Li Miao got married, and soon after, her mother-in-law also moved in with her. The mother-in-law said that after her daughter got married, she felt very empty, and now she lives with her son and daughter-in-law, and she feels that life is meaningful.
Xia Shi has a lot of respect for her mother-in-law, because she loves Li Miao deeply. Although there is no lavish life in this marriage, it is full of love and happiness.
After her mother-in-law moved in with Xia Shi, she asked to live in the master bedroom because her physical condition was not suitable for living in the second bedroom. Xia Shi's husband Li Miao immediately expressed his willingness to move to the second bedroom with Xia Shi and let his mother-in-law live in the master bedroom.
Although Xia Shi occasionally had disputes with his mother-in-law, her mother-in-law helped take care of the children, so that Xia Shi could go to work. Xia Shi and Li Miao discussed how to help the sister-in-law who was troubled by the marriage change, and Li Miao suggested providing a place for the sister-in-law to live in peace, so that she could settle down at ease, and then slowly find a way to solve other problems.
Xia Shi knows how important her husband's support is to her, so she takes the time to focus on renting** so that she can help her sister-in-law when she needs it. However, in less than a month, the sister-in-law divorced, and the custody of the child belonged to her, and the mother-in-law was obviously very worried about the outcome.
The mother-in-law then made an unexpected suggestion to Xia Shi: let Xia Shi take her granddaughter to rent a house in order to solve the accommodation problem of her sister-in-law. Faced with this proposal, Xia Shi did not respond immediately, but replied with a blank face: "Good".
Li Miao thought that Xia Shi should be considerate of her mother-in-law's age and situation, so he proposed that the family of three move out and rent a house to live. However, Xia Shi did not compromise on this, she insisted that the house was her pre-marital property and had nothing to do with her husband.
Xia Shi said that if her mother-in-law does not move out, she will sell the house and let her husband decide his next move.
If you were Xia Shi, how would you deal with this?