I've been so struggling with writing articles in the last few days that I've been unable to start writing.
The reason why I became entangled was because I fell into the trap of writing articles again - chasing to provide value to others.
Whenever I think of a topic to write about, I feel that writing about it doesn't seem to be of much value to others, so I dismiss my thoughts.
In the end, I struggled for a long time and didn't have a suitable topic, and I didn't have much time left to write.
In desperation, I had no choice but to postpone the writing, and because I didn't finish the daily update in the first time, it also affected my progress in doing other things.
When I'm doing other things, I'm always thinking about what I'm going to do if I can't finish my writing, I don't have a good idea yet.
The more I thought about it, the more anxious I became, and I couldn't even concentrate on what I was doing.
In fact, many people who have just started writing will encounter this problem, and they always want to be a blockbuster, so they pursue every article that can provide the best value to others.
But this is obviously unrealistic, because an article cannot be of value to everyone, so this pursuit is unreasonable.
So what should you aim for when writing an article?
The answer is – the article should be written with the goal of being able to provide value to itself.
There is a quote in The Miracle of Early Rising that your level of success rarely exceeds your own level of personal development.
Therefore, if we want to provide value to others, we must first improve our own value.
This also made me understand a writing method, if you want to be valuable to others, you must first be valuable to yourself, and only when your own value is improved, can you provide more value to others.
The amount of value a person can provide is closely related to one's own experience and cognition.
If our own abilities are limited, then even if we want to break our heads, we will definitely not be able to write articles that provide value to others.
So the most important thing in writing is to provide value to yourself first.
Only by providing value to ourselves first, our personal level will continue to improve, and our value will be greater.
This is a process that must be cultivated on the way to writing, just like playing a game, you have to kill more mobs in order to level up.
If you hit the boss directly as soon as you come up, then you will definitely be killed directly, and we will give up this game.
But many people want to take shortcuts and are not willing to upgrade step by step.
That's why I'm like me, I didn't write for a long time, and my level was not high, but I wanted to provide ** value to many people and want to influence many people.
I always fantasize that I can gradually increase my fans by writing a popular article, and then start to make money by publishing courses and services.
But imagination is beautiful, reality is cruel.
Even if one day we have a big luck and become a hit, in the face of sudden fans and various consulting questions, our shortcomings will be exposed.
Because our ability is not enough to undertake such a large amount of traffic, even if it is a temporary increase in fans, it is just a dream.
Therefore, no matter what we do, we must take the enhancement of our own value as the primary goal.
Steady and steady, step by step to become better, will meet better opportunities in the future.
How do you become valuable to yourself?
The process of thinking about everything from oneself, discovering one's own problems, and then solving one's own problems is valuable to oneself.
For example, when I don't have an idea in my writing, I reflect on my own problems.
The process of finding one's own problem, thinking about the solution, and then practicing it according to the plan is a process that is valuable to oneself.
For example, I learned a piece of knowledge and then expressed it in the form of writing.
In fact, this is also to be valuable to oneself first, and to enhance one's understanding of knowledge through writing.
Understand what the teacher said, write first for yourself.
This means that when we are not capable enough, the purpose of writing is to make ourselves better.
So when you first start writing, you don't need to think about whether you can provide value to others, you can provide value to yourself.
Everything starts from self-centeredness, writes about what you have learned, thinks, and feels, and constantly adds value to yourself.
Through continuous practice and accumulation day after day, we will eventually become strong enough to have enough user perspective and insight into the needs of users.
And when we are capable enough, sharing our own experiences and experiences is itself providing value to others.
And this process is also centered on ourselves, and it is also to provide value to ourselves.
So no matter what, in order to provide value to yourself first, you have to think from a self-centered perspective.
Write at the end. Just Do It", it is said that the method we have just learned, just do it stupidly.
After practicing for a period of time, you can derive your own methods, because these methods must have a lot of experience precipitation, and they are not as simple as they seem.
I'm still in the early stages of learning to write, so I should just do it.
According to the method taught by the teacher, think about yourself first, write for yourself first, and create value for yourself.
Constantly improve your ability and improve your value, and eventually you will usher in your own explosive period.
Zhu: Create value for yourself first.
It's a new day, and I'm going to do it today
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I'm not bored in the attack, a programmer looking for self-change, although I have only started reading and writing in 2023, but I believe that as long as you are willing to change, it is never too late to start.
Looking forward to your attention, I hope we can slowly get better together
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