At the beginning of the school year, the school repeatedly ordered students not to force them to complete their holiday homework, so we did not deliberately remind them.
However, after checking today, I found that several children in the class did not write a word.
Whether it's a difficult essay, or a **documentary to write a film review, I didn't do it. If you ask about other subjects, they don't write a word.
Not only did he not do it, but he also showed disapproval, feeling that he had made a big bargain.
After class, I asked the parents privately, but the parents said that they had asked the child, and the child said that it was done, so he did not ask.
Their children eat, drink and have fun every day during a holiday, and parents never feel that there is any problem, which is not just the child's laziness, but a serious problem for the parents.
Coincidentally, during the holidays, I agreed with my children that we would read together and write down our reading feelings every day, and those who persevered would receive special rewards.
So the children were gearing up, and there were 50 people in a class, and more than 40 people signed up.
After a holiday, only 17 people really persevered, only a third of the total number.
The remaining two-thirds of the children quit on their own, some gave up halfway, and some eventually gave up for various reasons.
The children who persevered felt that they had gained a lot, not only developed a good habit of reading for two hours a day, but also improved their thinking.
Maintaining cognition, the family has also created a strong reading atmosphere, compared with those parents and children who give upBecause there is no way to supervise
The child, supervising himself, eventually loses this opportunity to improve himself.
Although they have entered the first year of junior high school, children still need the guidance of parents in self-awareness and self-discipline.
After all, it's a child's nature to love to play, howGuiding children to achieve clear priorities and reasonable planning obviously requires parents to use their brains.
In fact, I found in my teaching that behind those self-disciplined children there is a well-educated, "diligent" parent, who knows how to seize the opportunity of children's growth, help children develop a sense of self-improvement, and develop a good habit of self-discipline.
Self-discipline is essential for a child's growth and future success, and every child has the potential for self-discipline.
As parents, we have a responsibility to help our children develop self-discipline and not let our laziness ruin our children's self-discipline potential.
So, what exactly should parents do?
Children often learn and imitate by observing their parents' behavior. If parents themselves do not have self-discipline, it is difficult for children to learn this quality from them.
Rules and limits are the foundation for developing self-discipline in children. Parents should work with their children to set clear rules and make sure they understand and accept the importance of these rules. These rules can include aspects such as time management, study plans, division of household chores, etc.
At the same time, parents should also give their children appropriate autonomy and let them participate in the rule-making process, so as to enhance their sense of responsibility and autonomy.
Help your child set clear goals and encourage them to develop plans and action steps accordingly. Parents can have regular assessments and feedback on their children's progress to help them stay motivated and focused.
At the same time, parents should also teach their children how to face setbacks and difficulties, and cultivate their perseverance and perseverance.
Providing children with a quiet, uncluttered, and orderly learning environment can help them focus and maintain self-discipline.
In addition, reducing the use and distractions of electronic devices and limiting the amount of time spent socially** can help children better manage their time and attention.
Hobbies can help children develop self-discipline and self-management skills. Parents can encourage their children to choose activities that interest them and help them make a reasonable schedule to balance time for learning and play.
In short, cultivating children's self-discipline requires the guidance and support of parents. Only when parents are diligent and have this awareness can they tap their children's potential, develop the habit of self-discipline, and benefit for life.
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