“1.3 million bride price; 2.I don't have children; 3.I don't do housework. "From the blind date at the age of 25 to the age of 36, I have not found a suitable other half, and the three requirements of bride price, childbirth and housework have become obstacles.
A woman confided in her blind date on the Internet, 11 years have passed, either on a blind date or on the way to a blind date, but in vain.
It's not because of any special hobbies or problems, but because of the 3 needs of the concept of marriage that discourage the man.
First of all, the bride price is 3 million, she feels that the bride price is one of the traditional cultures, it represents the affirmation of her own value, and the man's sincere heart, and it is also a little glory for her parents.
The number of 3 million may be that the woman's circle and her own conditions are higher than ordinary people, maybe other people's 3 million is like our 30,000, so this condition is still the one that can be overcome compared to the other two conditions.
Second, not having children. Because childbirth will deform one's body, and children will also make one's life more difficult, which is very consuming to life. So don't think about having children.
This point, it is estimated that there are also some people who can accept it, they think that life is less than a hundred years, mainly enjoyment, do not want to be responsible, do not want to have a burden, but after all, it is a minority, and there are more people of her age, or there are more traditional thoughts.
Third, don't do housework. She thinks that she is spoiled by her parents, she has not done housework, and she will break her habits over the years when she gets married, she thinks that this is unacceptable, and it is better to live one than that.
Under normal circumstances, if the economic conditions are okay, hire a nanny, this problem can be solved, but not to do housework is her deep-rooted concept and habit, in the days after marriage, even if there is a nanny, some things sometimes some housework can not be done, at this time there will be conflicts between husband and wife.
Marrying a woman who doesn't give birth to you and doesn't do housework for you, needless to say 3 million, is 30,000 do you want? Think about it from a different perspective.
This woman is still on a blind date in the blind date market, the conditions have not changed, and it can be regarded as persistence, she believes that she will wait for that person to appear.
With the progress of society and the development of the times, many people's outlook on marriage has changed, and the post-00s generation is more obvious, and their outlook on love is also more sober in the world. In short, they pay more attention to their own feelings, and have an attitude of having fun and enjoying life at will.
Everyone looks at life differently, and the benevolent see the benevolent, and the wise see the wise. In this woman's concept, she doesn't think there is anything wrong with her view of marriage, and she wants to pursue a free and capricious life.
How you live your life is your own business, it has nothing to do with others, and no one has the right to point fingers in anyone's life, bless her, I hope she can get what she wants.
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