The book "Xi Bao" makes people feel deeply depressed to read. Especially the wealthy nobles of the Miao family, who are extremely noble and enjoy a luxurious life, but in the end, none of them have a good end. Money gives them a superior life, but it cannot give them ordinary pleasures. In this world full of **, they are going to tragedy one by one, and their lives are miserable.
The Miao Congshu I want to talk about today is probably the saddest character of the Miao family. As the only son of a wealthy family, he inherited hundreds of billions of assets, and he should have unlimited scenery, but he was weak and incompetent by nature. From glory to a mental hospital, his fortunes took a sharp turn. Cunzi's disappointment with him translates into a fierce desire for control and aggression, which eventually destroys him completely.
Song Jiaming once said to Xibao: "I only know that he has two sons and a daughter, and Cong Shu is always his heart, Cong Shu is too angry, the problem is that he doesn't have to fight at all." This sentence profoundly reveals the complex relationship between Ao Cunzi and Ao Congshu. Yes, Miao Congshu has never made Ao Cunzi proud, he has never left Hong Kong to study outside because he is not good academically.
He lives an uninhibited life, idle, and has no sense of responsibility. When Xibao first met him, he had a very bad impression of him: the second ancestor was always like this, self-esteem and arrogance, he could never leave home, and those who were willing to study were better, and those who refused to read were simply hopeless. In his life, he never made his goals clear, and only relied on his father's money to live a decadent life.
In fact, Miao Congshu has always been like a child who doesn't grow up, he lacks an independent personality and rational thinking. There is both a weak and stubborn side to his character. He, like his father, fell in love with Xibao at first sight. However, Xibao has no interest in him. When he was ruthlessly rejected for his courtship to Xibao, he actually cried like a child. This shows his naivety and immaturity. In the original book, he also has scenes where he cries many times. After Xibao left for England, he still insisted on writing to her, but when he found out that the letter had been intercepted by his father, he only wept silently.
Through these details, we can see the weakness and helplessness of Miao Congshu. He never seems to be able to shake off his dependence on his father and face life on his own. His fate is full of tragedy, and one can't help but feel sad for him.
Xibao faced Cong Shu and reluctantly admonished: "Why can't you stand up strongly, walk outside with your legs, open the door, and feel the sunshine and rain." You're a man, and you can't ask for everything. But how could Satoshi listen? He has lived under the protection of his family for many years, and he has not tasted the slightest bitterness or setback. Excessive comfort and comfort had eroded his mind. His extremes are as terrible as his weaknesses.
When Xibao accepted the conditions of Cunzi, Cong Shu was always entangled, unwilling to let Xibao leave Cunzi. No matter how much Xibao refuses, Congshu follows like a dogskin plaster. What's even more ironic is that you can't communicate with him with ** thinking, he is often immersed in his own thoughts, ignoring other people's opinions. This kind of wisdom is ridiculous, but it is even more pathetic.
We can't help but ask, what kind of life has this wealthy son experienced? It's not so much that he's the son of Cunzi as he's a manipulated pawn. Miao Cunzi's feelings for Cong Shu are extremely complicated, not only expecting him to become a talent, but also wanting to control him, shape him into the ideal image in his heart, and inherit the family business. And the father figure in Congshu's heart is tolerant and free. Sadly, their relationship has long since changed from expectation to disappointment and even disgust.
Cong Shu knew it: "My father always wanted to have a good son, smart, agile, and talented. But what he got was my ......We hate each other, but we depend on each other. "Cunzi will never understand that it was he who ruined Congshu's life with his own hands. I have analyzed Cunzi before, he doesn't understand the true meaning of love, his love is heavy and selfish, which makes people feel depressed.
Cong Shu once said two words when he kept Xibao: "He has done it once, he has already done such a thing once, I will not forgive him again!" "What is it? We don't know. But what is certain is that the stories and secrets behind this are far more complex than we think. I was shocked that he was so obsessed with competing for my girlfriend. It's amazing to imagine a father and son going toe-to-toe in love. But when you think about it, it's not impossible. For Cunzi, his desire for a young girl is not a simple impulse, but a thirst for vitality and vitality. His son Miao Congshu is in his youth, and he naturally interacts with young girls, which just caters to Miao Cunzi's preferences.
And as a wealthy man standing at the top of society, he is obsessed with the feeling of conquest, which naturally includes the conquest of his son's girlfriend. At the same time, every time Ao Congshu has a desire for something, Ao Cunzi will be stimulated to have a stronger desire to compete. His encounter and battle with Xibao is a striking example. Although he knew that Miao Congshu had a soft spot for Xibao, he still used all means to take her into his arms.
Not only did he send her to study abroad, but he also intercepted the letters written by Miao Congshu to Xibao, and even kept a close eye on their every move. In fact, in the face of such a father, Miao Congshu was powerless to resist at all. And Miao Cunzi's plundering of Miao Congshu, not to mention his girlfriend, he almost completely controlled his son's life.
Xibao once confided in him: "The letter of wisdom and forgiveness is in your hands, you are in the light, and all of us are in the dark." This undoubtedly reveals the power and control of Cunzi. His ubiquitous eyes are always on everyone, so that they have nowhere to hide.
Although he has feelings for Xibao, it may not be due to true love, but his rebellion against his father's control. However, he has never been able to get rid of his father's palm, just as Sun Wukong has not escaped from the palm of the Buddha. Although he was full of rebellion at heart, his weakness prevented him from truly confronting his father.
When he learned that Xibao had been taken away by his father, he tried to commit suicide in order to get free. But his actions were misunderstood. "If we were to commit suicide as a wise man, people of our class should have bought a hemp rope and hanged themselves a long time ago—why are we still struggling in the world? ”
Ao Cunzi's understanding of him is limited to this, he thinks that Ao Congshu, who has the best in the world, is just fooling around. However, in fact, he is a misunderstood person. Under the aura of a wealthy family, he is isolated from the warmth of the world, and no one really understands his inner world. If Cunzi could squeeze out a little time from his busyness to care for Ao Congshu, many tragedies would not have happened. Poor Miao Congshu, what he did was nothing more than a call for love from the depths of his heart. Although he stands at the top of society, he can't feel the warmth and care of ordinary families, and he is the real spiritual poor.
People in the family are the same, they always think that money can buy everything, but they ignore the inner desire for love and understanding. Even if the family is rich, a life without love cannot bring inner happiness. Eventually, he was admitted to a psychiatric hospital. Ever since he went to England and was rejected by Xibao and learned that his letter had been intercepted by Cunzi, his mental state has deteriorated. This illness was more than a year, and he lived alone in the hospital, with only Xibao occasionally visiting.
However, apart from paying for the hospital, the family never really cared about him. They didn't even dare to let Miao Cunzi know, for fear of affecting his mood. Xibao told Miao Cunzi the truth, but he was indifferent. He thinks that Miao Congshu is just playing tricks, but he doesn't understand what kind of predicament he has fallen into. What's even more chilling is that Miao Cunzi opposes Xibao to visit Qiao Congshu, he is afraid that Qiao Congshu will snatch Xibao.
In the eyes of Miao Cunzi, Miao Congshu's illness is all faked. But in fact, this time Miao Congshu was really sick. He became reticent, didn't know anyone, just sat dumbfounded, losing his former vitality. Sometimes he would suddenly shout, "It's all mine, you steal my things!" Xibao thought that his condition had improved, but the truth was cruel.
*We are clear about Miao Congshu's condition: "Many of the patients who live here are like him, tormented by the pain in their hearts. ”
It's a sad ending, especially for someone who grew up surrounded by money and material things. He didn't learn how to feel love, and he didn't learn how to love others. In this world of lust and emptiness, love is the only antidote. It's a pity that Miao Congshu didn't wait for this antidote. The Story of Satoshi Forgiveness: The Two-Way Mirror of Life.
We live in a world where many of us crave the attention and recognition of others. This desire is sometimes like an invisible chain that holds us tightly to the eyes and evaluations of others. Satoshi, the protagonist of this story, is also filled with this desire in his heart. Yes, he didn't want much, just a little attention and warmth. But fate always seems to play tricks on him, making him play a loner on the stage of life that no one understands.
When his psychological defenses finally crumble, we can't help but ask: how will Congshu's life continue? His life is like a satire, full of bizarre and helplessness. In this story, the father's death does not bring the expected reconciliation, but rather acts like another merciless blow. Congshu's life is like a puppet manipulated by the invisible hand of fate, no matter how much he struggles, he can't get rid of that invisible thread.
But Satoshi didn't give up. He inherited a large inheritance from his father, and although he was not in his control, his life did not get any easier. He began to re-examine his life and think about what he really wanted. In the process, he found a new meaning and direction in life.
Although Congshu's life experience is impressive, a passage in the original book makes people think deeply: "Zhou Zhijun became pregnant again when her first child was half a year old, and her future work is to be alive and alive, the more the better, Congshu will only laugh behind her, he doesn't know what he's doing, but he doesn't care now, and he lives to **yes**." This passage reveals the helplessness and confusion in Satoshi's heart, and also hints at the possibilities of his future.
Although the end of Congshu's life may seem bleak, we cannot ignore the changes and growth in him. Although his experience is full of tragedy and helplessness, it is also a kind of tempering and baptism in his life. Through this process, he gradually realized his true value and meaning. Although his status as the only son of a wealthy family brought him a certain amount of pressure and constraints, he eventually learned how to find his place in this complex world.