Transnational marriages between China and Russia have gradually increased in recent years, and many Russian girls choose to marry far away from China. However, after marriage, they found that there was a huge gap between their expected life, which caused some girls to feel aggrieved and uncomfortable when they returned home. This article will analyze the specific manifestations of cultural differences between China and Russia, and analyze the reasons why Russian girls choose to marry Chinese men.
Russians are bold and straightforward, and for them, alcohol is a powerful tool for solving problems. Due to the cold climate, Russians are keen on vodka, hoping to bring warmth to the body. Moreover, there are differences between Russian wine culture and China. In China, it is seen as a courtesy to continue to fill up wine glasses after drinking. However, in Russia, if the glass is full, it is necessary to drink it immediately, otherwise it is considered rude.
Such a difference can lead to awkwardness when Chinese and Russians drink together, and a lack of understanding of the culture can lead to two people drinking a bottle of wine together. The Chinese may think that the Russians are very good at drinking, and the Russians may suspect that the Chinese have an opinion about themselves. This difference is the result of cultural differences.
In addition, there are many other aspects of cultural differences between China and Russia, such as the concept of childbearing, marriage and financial management. These differences are very strange and incomprehensible for Russian girls, because according to their education since childhood, they and their families have always practiced like this.
For mixed-race families, having children is the first problem they face as a couple. In China, most people think that one child is enough, and two children are already the limit, because having multiple children can put huge financial pressure on the family. However, in Russia, having two children is the minimum requirement, and in general, three children are more common, and some Russian families even have four or five children.
This is a very normal thing in Russia, but in the eyes of Chinese, having three or four children can bring great economic pressure to married life. Especially if all of them are boys, the financial pressure after marriage will be even greater, including a bride price, RV and other necessary wedding items. Chinese may think this is a very incredible thing. It can be seen that the cultural differences between China and Russia will cause certain troubles in married life.
In Russia and most Western countries, there is no concept of bride price for marriage. For parents in these countries, marriage is the child's own business, and if you choose the right partner, even if your marriage is not happy, it is your own choice. The family may give some help, but there will be no material things such as a bride price, a house, a car, etc.
In contrast, in China, the bride price is seen as an essential part of marriage. While some parents may not ask for these material things, most will still ask for them. Therefore, this is yet another point of difference in a Sino-Russian marriage.
In addition, in China, one of the major differences between Chinese and Western cultures is the concept of consumption. Chinese generally focus on frugality and saving money, while Russians are relatively Buddhist and less interested in saving money. Russians generally believe that they will spend as long as they have money, and rarely plan for the future. But in the eyes of Chinese, the lack of a savings plan can lead to a tight budget in case of an emergency. Russian girls may feel that they can spend their savings now and that there is no need to work every day. It's okay to wait until your savings are all over before you go to work. For the Chinese, this thinking is not correct, because it is painful to have no money on hand in an emergency.
In view of the differences between Chinese men and foreign men, some people may wonder why so many foreign girls choose to marry Chinese men when there is such a big cultural difference between China and Russia.
First of all, the cultural differences between China and Russia will not necessarily be a stumbling block to marriage. Many couples in transnational marriages between China and Russia are able to overcome cultural differences and build a happy marriage through mutual tolerance, understanding and communication.
Secondly, the cultural differences between China and Russia can also be complementary in marriage. Husbands and wives can learn from each other and tolerate each other's cultures, so as to enhance mutual understanding and communication. Such a marriage will make the life of both parties more colorful, full of novelty and surprise.
In addition, Chinese men also have unique charms and advantages in the eyes of foreign girls. For example, Chinese men are often perceived as gentle, responsible, and caring for their families, and value family values. These qualities are very attractive in the eyes of some foreign girls.
Finally, personal choice is also an important factor. Although there are cultural differences between China and Russia, Russian girls who choose to marry Chinese men may pay more attention to the relationship between the two and mutual understanding and support. Although cultural differences may cause some confusion, as long as both spouses are tolerant and understanding of each other, it is believed that they can build a happy marriage.
To sum up, the cultural differences between China and Russia have certain challenges in married life, but they are not insurmountable obstacles. Through mutual understanding, tolerance, and communication, couples can overcome cultural differences and build a happy marriage. Russian girls who choose to marry Chinese men may pay more attention to the relationship between the two and mutual understanding and support, rather than just cultural differences.