In fact, many marriages are wars.
Lan Lan and Zhang Wu have been married for two years, and two years later they bought a new house through their own efforts. However, the two had a dispute over the washbasin, and the washbasin was changed three times by the decorator, Nan Nan was still not satisfied, and asked to be replaced with a gloomy face, I persuaded my wife, enough. Isn't this just a face shop? Nan Nan recalled that her husband was decorating with his arms facing outward. When I chose something tasteful, the fire in my heart quickly burned.
Nan Nan, who has been married for two years, has always regretted turning a blind eye. The poor boy knows how to fool around with his friends. "He got drunk late at night, threw up so badly, didn't even pay the down payment on the house early, and now he doesn't even have a nest. The problem is that even if he has a nest, he doesn't have it. On the contrary, he was everywhere, causing chaos and anger to Nan'an. Zhang Wu said, this is not your cave. Your mom takes out the basin to wash her face, do you feel disgusted? Zhang Wu was furious and twisted his mouth. You just want to slap in the face. When I wanted to pull it down, I only heard a "pop", and some red marks appeared on Nan Nan's face. Nan Nan said that you have the courage to hit me. Nan Nan frantically rushed towards Zhang Wu, and the two fought to the end, leaving blood stains on Zhang Wu's face, and Nan Nan was kicked in the lower abdomen.
My friend Lily has been married for ten years and has three children. A few months after the birth of my third child, I had an argument with my mother-in-law. The long-accumulated conflict suddenly broke out, and the mother-in-law did not like her daughter-in-law. Perhaps her stepmother thought it was because Lily had three daughters, all of them girls. And Lily didn't get up until eleven o'clock every day. The mother-in-law was very dissatisfied with her, and the two began to argue. When her husband came back in the evening, he heard them arguing. Subsequently, Lily and her husband also had an argument. Unexpectedly, my husband sided with my mother-in-law. They quarreled and then a fight began. Things are scattered all over the house. Lily's husband also threw away one of her precious necklaces. She got angry and started arguing with her husband. The husband was also enraged, and the two fought, stabbing Lili in the hand. Lili got angry and took her youngest son with her. I'm going to stay at a hotel.
Every marriage is like a war. In the war, someone was wounded.
In fact, there are many marital wars like these two couples in marriage, but wars arise because of conflicts. Someone has to apologize afterwards. Husbands and wives need to reconcile. After a long marriage, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts. When conflict arises, we can sometimes become impulsive. Then, when the impulse passes, the two must resolve the conflict.
There are many couples who don't quarrel. In fact, quarrels also have their benefits, once the conflict is resolved, the relationship between the two people will heat up even more.
My personality is one who doesn't argue with me. My husband and I have been married for 10 years and we have never had a fight. We sometimes quarrel over something, but it's never a serious thing. If he quarrels with me, I'll let him go, so we haven't had a fight in years.
Some friends have told me that if we were together, we would fight. I said if we were together, we would definitely fight. Sometimes quarrels are not harmful. Maybe the relationship will heat up.