To be a man, you have to endure and be ruthless, you must endure when you should endure, and you must be ruthless when you should be ruthless.
So, when is it time to endure? When should I be ruthless?
There are no absolute boundaries, and there are no definitive answers. However, we can endure it for a while, and when we can no longer bear it, we must bravely face it. The most important thing in life is to be resilient and courageous.
Forbearance is not weakness, not compromise, not submission. It is a kind of great wisdom, a kind of maturity, a kind of generosity. Ninja always remain calm and make informed choices based on the situation.
ruthless, not ruthless and indifferent, nor strong. It is courage, determination, and the courage to overcome difficulties. It is a means that we must strive to have.
As the saying goes: "Only by enduring what ordinary people can't endure can we achieve what ordinary people can't." ”
Therefore, to be a man, you must be able to endure and endure, and of course, you must also be ruthless and ruthless.
Be a human being, be patient.
1. If you can endure it, you can endure it.
There will be ups and downs in life, but as the saying goes: "Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky!" "Perseverance may lead to a bigger future.
Forbearance is a kind of power that transcends oneself, and it is for ourselves, for others, and for a better future, to surpass our own limits. Everyone's range of tolerance is different, some people are prone to collapse, and some people are strong and unyielding. Being able to persevere in the midst of pain is a sign of our growth.
There are some things that you can endure, but others can't, and there are some things that you can't endure, but others can.
Therefore, forbearance is one of the truest manifestations of human nature. This instinctive response is close to the most primitive human emotion. It may be our best choice in the face of adversity, and it is also an opportunity for us to embody our highest virtues.
Therefore, forbearance is the most basic forbearance of a person.
2. Endure when you endure.
When forbearance, forbearance is a kind of profound self-thinking. We need to weigh the pros and cons and identify the best way to communicate in the complex interpersonal relationships. We need to learn to let go of our own emotions and to understand and tolerate others.
It is different from tolerance because tolerance is often instinctive, while forbearance is more deliberate. In either case, ninjas need courage and wisdom to go further and further in life.
Han Xin endured the crotch and shot arrows, and the king of Yue Goujian lay down and tasted the courage, all of which are good stories in history. There is no doubt that it is not easy to endure humiliation. , but under the circumstances at that time, they had to choose to endure humiliation. This kind of decision-making is a combination of wisdom and courage, and it is also the greatness of human nature embodied in times of crisis.
Sometimes, patience is a smart choice. Not only can it hide itself at the right time, but it can also plan for the future. Therefore, mastering the art of patience at the right time is also a kind of wisdom.
3. No need to endure anymore.
Everybody's patience has a limit, and once it is beyond that limit, then there is no need to endure it anymore, because there is no longer any patience.
Everyone's bottom line and tolerance level are different, so this limit also varies from person to person. We need to think deeply about our bottom line in order to better protect our dignity and rights.
We need to be clear about our principles and boundaries of patience, and once we are offended, we don't need to continue to endure. It's about protecting your dignity and respect, but also about making yourself happier.
After all, unprincipled and bottom-line forbearance, in exchange, is often an inch.
4. It doesn't matter if you endure.
Letting go of the knife of patience and relieving the pain in your heart is the highest state of patience. My realizations have taught me that only by freeing my heart can I truly have freedom and inner peace.
If you have a knife in your heart, you can forbear, and if you don't have a knife in your heart, you don't care about forbearance.
Forbearance, is it someone else, or something from the outside world, or oneself?
Perhaps, the answer lies in the heart!
Be a man, be ruthless.
1. Be cruel to yourself.
People are forced out, life is boiled out, people live, you must be ruthless to yourself.
Be tolerant of yourself, and so is life, but if you indulge yourself too much, reality will be ruthless. When the time comes, you can only be helpless, and your heart will be cut like a knife.
As long as you can be ruthless with yourself, push yourself, and continue to work hard and persevere, I believe that you will eventually meet a better version of yourself in front of you. This better you will be braver, more confident, and stride forward to meet more challenges in life.
As human beings, we should understand that true talent needs to be forced to dig into ourselves, and those who are excellent are able to attack themselves without hesitation.
So, be yourself so that you can stand firmer, fly higher, and go further.
2. Be ruthless to rotten people and bad things.
In fact, in this life, as long as we don't get entangled with bad people and bad things, we can all live well.
In life, we have to face bad people and bad things. In order to protect our hearts and dignity, we must be decisive. When necessary, break off the relationship, turn the face when you should turn your face, give up when you should give up, and break off when you should break it. Don't be nostalgic, be firm and decisive, and make people's lives full of sharpness and ruthlessness.
When you stay away from bad people and bad things, you can move forward better and live a better life.
Really being ruthless to bad people and bad things is the best kind treatment to yourself.
Conclusion: To be a man, you must be patient, but you must also be decisive, you can't endure it all the time but can't make up your mind. Otherwise, you will get caught up in your own contradictions and do yourself nothing good. Let yourself act firmly, and be independent and assertive in everything you do.
Everyone wants to live a better life, and for that, we need to learn to persevere, but also to keep moving forward.
know how to forbear, stay away from disputes, and avoid unnecessary troubles; And having courage can achieve self-achievement and make life better.
May you be positive and optimistic and have a good time!