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It takes half a lifetime to understand that everyone has to be responsible for their own life, and an adult is sober is to be able to do "three no matter", "four don't say", focus on oneself, and do not cross others.
"Three regardless" is: no matter the idle things, no matter the love affairs, no matter the family affairs.
"Four don't say" is: don't say bad things, don't say crazy things, don't say complaining words, don't say empty words.
Three, don't care, don't be idle
Dickens said, "The best politeness is not to meddle." ”
Everyone has their own life, and the biggest stupidity of an adult is to meddle in other people's affairs.
There are three things in a person's life: one's own business, other people's business, and God's business. The best attitude is to take care of your own business, stay away from people's business, and accept God's business.
However, many people now have gone the wrong way, neglecting their own affairs, caring about other people's affairs, and rebelling against God's affairs.
In the end, I didn't do my own thing and other people's things well, and I caused others to complain.
Take care of yourself and don't care about other people's affairs, this is the great wisdom of the world.
Three, no matter what, no matter what happens.
Things in the world are inherently very complicated, and emotional things will be extremely complex and changeable.
There is a good saying: "Who can tell the emotional thing!" ”。
Maybe today two people hate each other so much that they gnash their teeth, and tomorrow they will be like glue again.
Whether you persuade to divide or make peace, it will become your fault, and thus attract envy.
Therefore, as an outsider, don't care about other people's affairs.
Three, no matter what, no matter the family affairs.
As the old saying goes, "It is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs".
Home is never a place to be reasonable, but a place to be interceding.
No matter how the family quarrels, they are a family, and they have a constant family relationship.
And as a sober adult, don't take care of other people's family affairs, otherwise you will not only cause trouble for yourself, but also add to the blockage of others.
Fourth, don't say bad things.
As the saying goes: "A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people and is cold in June."
In life, don't expose people's shortcomings, don't speak ill of people. Otherwise, it is easy to invite unexpected disasters.
Fourth, don't say crazy things.
There is a sky outside the sky, there are people outside the people, and the strong have their own strong players.
Therefore a man may be proud, but not proud.
The sky is mad and rainy, and people are crazy and sick. Wild talk is the most devastating.
The tree beckons the wind, and the man beckons trouble. So don't talk crazy.
Fourth, don't say anything, don't complain.
As the saying goes: "Life is not as good as it should be, and there are no two or three who can talk to others."
As an adult, don't complain and complain everywhere.
Because no one likes a person who spreads negative energy every day.
There is no real empathy in the world, and your complaints will only make others despise you more.
Fourth, don't say empty words.
Confucius once said: "If the lady does not speak, her words must be in the middle."
It means that a person either doesn't speak, or he gets to the point as soon as he speaks.
Honesty is the foundation of a person's life, if you talk empty words every day, blind promises, for a long time, everyone will think that you are unreliable, dishonest.
Therefore, a sober adult would rather not speak than empty words.
What other suggestions do you have for adult sobriety, welcome to share and communicate.
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