Many children always procrastinate when doing homework, either drinking water or going to the toilet, the more anxious the parents, the less busy the children, the parents will inevitably shout, the children are trembling in the shouting, how can there be room for thinking.
If your child is procrastinating in his homework, you can calmly tell him these words, because these words are said from his point of view and are beneficial to him, so the child will generally listen.
The first thing you tell him is that if you take the initiative to complete your homework quickly, you will have more free time to self-do. You can play with your favorite toys, read your favorite books, watch your favorite TV, do your favorite crafts, and eat your favorite snacks. In short, through daily observation, you can list many of your child's favorite things. Let the child yearn for something, but also full of happiness and happiness in the heart. Tell him that you take the initiative to complete your homework independently, and your parents seem to see you listening carefully in class, and your focus is what your parents also have to learn, and we are proud to have a child like you. Children not only have the goals they yearn for, such as reading their favorite comics after completing their homework, but also seeing their parents' affirmation of themselves, and their hearts are happy, so it is not so difficult to do homework.
Secondly, you tell him that if you take the initiative to complete the homework quickly, it not only means that you have mastered the knowledge in the classroom, but you can also use it, which means that the learning skills are improving. You're going to get better and better. Not only will your studies be better, but your body will also be better, because you don't stay up late to do your homework and have plenty of rest time, so you will be more and more handsome. Imagine a future when my son or (my daughter) is in the wind or slim, and mom and dad can wake up laughing in their dreams. This not only affirms the child's learning ability, but also expresses appreciation and encouragement to the child, so that the child can see a better self who takes the initiative to complete the homework.
Thirdly, if you tell your child that you are proactive in completing your homework, you will have enough time to fill in the gaps, or that you will have enough time to prepare, not only to consolidate old knowledge and draw inferences from others, but also to preview new knowledge in advance and show your strength in class. Let the teachers and classmates look at you with admiration, your progress is so clearly there, how many classmates will cast admiration and envy at you. Just look at the eyes of mom and dad and you know how good you are. With such self-discipline and such good study habits, you are our best business card. In this way, the child knows the benefits of taking the initiative to complete homework, and his inner universe will definitely explode. Because every child has the best version of themselves in their hearts, but they don't see it. As soon as parents are so motivated, the child's potential will be stimulated, and the initiative to learn will be high.
Finally, you can compare one of your child's classmates with your own child, preferably in a community, you see that the light in his study is still on, his mother is reprimanding him so loudly, and then look at you, you have long been doing what you like. This rational use of time not only improves your learning ability, develops good study habits, but also makes our home flow with a warm and happy feeling, which is all your credit. Mom and Dad are really proud to have a sensible child like you. Children have the psychology of comparison, especially between children in a class that is not bad, if you affirm him, the child will definitely have a different self to prove to you.