Indeed, saving too much money and suppressing the desire to buy may make us more and more petty.
Every time I go out to eat and buy a drink, I have to struggle for a long time, although I can save a little money, but life is really getting more and more boring.
In fact, real thrift is not to blindly save money, but to learn how to use money reasonably.
As the old saying goes, "Money is where it goes." "We should use our money clearly and just right, and that's the real frugality.
If we want to be rich, we don't have to be too frugal, the key is to learn to control money.
We must dare to enjoy the different life experiences that money brings us, and get rid of the feeling of picking and searching.
In this way, in the new year, we can get richer and richer.
Today I would like to share with you two methods, so that we can become a gold-absorbing physique together.
1. Make a budget and stick to it.
Set a budget for yourself every month and spend it strictly according to your budget. This not only ensures that we will not spend money indiscriminately, but also makes us more aware that the money has been spent.
2. Cultivate confidence in money
Many people have no bottom in their hearts when it comes to money, always feel that they don't have enough money to spend, and they don't believe that they can make more.
It's like buying something you like but it's expensive, and you're not happy, but you're thinking about whether to return it, and you feel distressed.
If the tooth is broken, I am reluctant to spend money on treatment, and the result is more and more serious, and in the end, I spend more money and suffer more.
Actually, it's like telling yourself, "I don't deserve good things." ”
But ah, we need to know that each of us has our own value and deserves good things.
As the old saying goes, "I'm born to be useful." "We have to believe in ourselves, that we can make more money, and that we deserve a better life.
So, we have to tell ourselves from the heart, "I'm great, I can afford it, I deserve it!" Thinking about it this way, you won't feel distressed when you spend money, but you will feel happy.
Of course, spending money bravely does not mean that we should squander and waste, but that we should not stop doing things that make us happy and helpful because we are afraid of waste.
You can try to build an "entertainment account" for yourself and save some money into it every month, and this part of the money can be spent as you like, just to make yourself happy.
In this way, we will gradually live in harmony with money, and we will be able to let it flow out and back unimpeded!
Remember, friends, each of us has our own values and abilities to have a better life.
As long as we believe in ourselves and the power of money, we will definitely make our lives better!
3. Talk about money generously and spend money frankly.
There's really no need to hide it when it comes to money, and there's nothing embarrassing about talking about it generously.
Isn't it normal for us to make money, save money, and spend money! As the old saying goes, "Money makes the devil grind." ”
Although it is a bit exaggerated, money is indeed a good thing, it can help us solve many problems, make our lives more convenient and comfortable.
However, some people's attitude towards money is to screw, and they are not happy when they spend money. Or, if you pick and search, you have to worry about every penny for half a day;
Either that, or lavishly, spending more than earning. In fact, money is a tool in our hands, and we have to learn to use it to exchange it for a better life experience for ourselves.
Some people don't dare to spend money generously, they always feel that money is very difficult to earn, and they feel guilty about spending a little.
But in fact, making money is not as difficult as you think. As long as we work hard and are diligent, we can always find a way to make money that suits us.
As the saying goes, "God rewards hard work." "As long as we put in the effort, it will always pay off.
Of course, "spending generously" does not mean that we can spend money indiscriminately.
Within the scope of our ability, talking about money generously and spending money frankly is actually a kind of high-level self-discipline.
Such people are more likely to feel rich and relaxed inside. And those who are rich in heart are also more likely to attract more wealth. It's a virtuous circle!
So, friends, let's all learn to talk about money generously and spend money openly! In this way, our lives can be better and richer!
So, don't be too frugal. We must learn to use money rationally and enjoy the happiness that money brings. Remember the two methods shared by Xiao Yu, let's become a gold-absorbing physique together!