Daughter, watching you grow up from babbling to now slim and adult, there are some principles of life and work that I want to tell you quietly.
1.Make friends with your own principles, don't give the lead to others, and don't be kidnapped by the righteousness of the other party to do what you don't want to do
The saying that those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, still makes sense. Many, many people have made themselves miserable because of their carelessness in making friends.
A person's maturity is not all at once, you may not be able to recognize the friends you make at once whether they are good or bad, but at least you have to have your own opinions, your own judgment.
A good friend will not force you to do what you don't want to do, and she will not morally kidnap you to fulfill her wishes.
2.Don't just go to those bars, dance halls, or KTV songs. If you do it out of curiosity or rebellion, remember to protect yourself this way.
1) If you don't finish drinking water, you go to the toilet or go out to pick up ** or something, anyway, don't drink it again when you come back.
Because you don't know if there are people with bad intentions who put drugs or drugs in it.
2) Don't get drunk, it's important to keep a clear head.
A lot of ill-intentioned people deliberately get you drunk and do some bad things.
3.Color a knife on the head, don't lose yourself because you like it.
When a person reaches the beginning of love, it is normal to like someone. But because I like it, because of my infatuation, my heart and eyes are blind, and I can't tell the difference between southeast and northwest.
You can like it, you can fall in love, but don't lose yourself and lose basic judgment and common sense because you like it.
You can simply like a guy, but the guy you like doesn't necessarily think the same way.
4.The person who hurts you may not necessarily be a stranger you don't know, and the person who hurts you may be someone you are familiar with. Don't trust a person too easily, and be on basic alert.
We tend to be alert to strangers and defenseless to those we know well.
Never ignore the law of the jungle.
Especially adolescent friends of the opposite sex. That day I saw a newspaper story about a girl being ** by his friend. I'm shocked that something like this can happen at your age.
So I am unconsciously worried about you and need to remind you to protect yourself.
5.Don't have money entanglements with good friends, good brothers settle accounts, don't be confused about money, and learn to say ugly things ahead.
Don't just because you're too young and have no income to lend money to your friends or borrow money from your friends.
Our family rules have taught you the good habit of paying back when you have money, but you can't guarantee that if you lend money to your friend, she will pay you back on time?
It is precisely because you have no income that you cannot experience the difficulty of making money, so you will easily promise to lend money to your good friend.
Last time, you said that you didn't lend her money, and you felt that you were not righteous enough.
You lent out the money, but you didn't tell her the date to repay the money, did you end up running out of money? So in the end, this unfortunate loss is transferred to us as parents?
You have to learn to talk ugly things ahead, you know? That way, you don't leave the trouble behind.
Conclusion] Our most basic expectation as parents is that you are healthy and happy.
But this world is not as simple as you see, as an escort on your way to adulthood, we have the responsibility and obligation to teach you the wisdom of being a person and doing things.