On the Internet, I worked overtime with my husband on the weekend last week, went to the school, and saw that those students who were preparing for the graduate school entrance examination were seriously preparing for the exam.
I can't help but think of what my college life was like when I saw themIf I could go back to college again, what if I would work as hard as they did for one thing?Or do you have to get by like before?
In the evening, I thought about it seriously, if I had the opportunity to go through my university again, I would definitely do something that made me feel meaningful.
This is also because after leaving school for so many years, I often regret that I did not cherish my college life at that time, and I always felt that college life was meaningless.
1. Read more books and summarize your own knowledge system
College is the first time we have the opportunity to choose what we like to Xi, because we have some time to ourselves.
At this time, in addition to learning Xi textbook knowledge, we can also learn more knowledge Xi build our own knowledge base.
In order to prepare for future work, make various preparations in advance.
*Original up-and-coming small-town girl2. Develop several lifelong Xi habits
I remember when I was in college, I would wake up early when I had classes, and I would basically sleep until I woke up naturally when I didn't have classes, why did this happen?
Because in high school, in order to be able to be admitted to the university of our choice, we have no choice but to keep working hard, get up early and go to bed late, and we always want to indulge ourselves when we get to college.
I have only slowly changed myself in the last few years, and I have some Xi that I feel are good.
But the best thing is that we develop these good Xi habits in college, which will really benefit us a lot.
Going to bed early and waking up early is really a basic good Xi.
Listing to do list, this is a Xi that I slowly developed after going to work, making a list every day can better know what I should do, and can also make every day organized, so as not to be busy because of some unexpected situations.
Bookkeeping, I remember when I was in college, the only ** living expenses were given by my parents. The use of living expenses is for normal life, but at the end of each month, I always wonder how much money will be used
Later, after going to work, I don't have much money to plan, so it seems that the money is not enough every month.
Saving money, saving money is really very regrettable that I haven't done it before, and it used to be really moonshine. After giving birth to a child, I slowly gained some awareness of saving money, and I began to save money slowly.
So the first two years of being a stay-at-home mom were really hard.
3. Cultivate your own hobbies
When I was a child, my family conditions were not good, and there were no such interests in the countryside at that time. So I'm really a little bit of my own hobby or not.
When I went to university, I found that the people around me had more or less some interests and hobbies, and I looked at myself as if I was really useless.
So other people's free time can be full and meaningful, while I can only go shopping or brush up on short**.
Fortunately, in the past few years, I have gradually developed some meaningful interests and hobbies, although I still haven't been able to become a specialty, but I don't waste time.
Recommend hobbies that you can cultivate: writing, reading, practicing calligraphy, photography, etc.
Networking4. Step out of your comfort zone and take the initiative to make friends
I wasn't a sociable person growing up, so I've always been the passive side when it comes to making friends.
When I was in school, I didn't think there was anything wrong with this, but after I went out into society, I realized how important and meaningful it is to take the initiative to make friends.
I think if I had the chance to do it all over again, I would learn to make friends this time.
5. Make a dream list
I seem to have a kind of confusion about my future until now.
Two weeks ago, my husband and niece came to visit us on the weekend, saying that they wanted to hang out together during the winter vacation. To be honest, I envy her young now, and she knows better that she is envious of them now, and they have a clear understanding of their own path.
And I seem to have been in a mess for years.
Write at the end:
If I could go back to college, I would have so much to do. It's a pity that I can't go back, but fortunately, I can change now.
It's a little late, but it's good if there is a change, maybe a lot later, but I think one day I'll be what I imagined.
Above, encouragement!
NetworkingAbout the author: [Upward Small Town Girl].
A full-time mother born in the 90s.
Focus on self-growth and dry goods sharing.
Strive for a life where you don't go to work and only work.