Many people say that love is complicated, but in fact, love is very simple. Sometimes it's in words. If you don't know if he loves you or not, just ask him three words and you'll know the answer.
1.Do you get jealous when I'm getting along well with other members of the opposite sex?
According to him, I have male friends, but if I become friends with them, will he be jealous? If he says no, I'm not that stingy person. I'll give you some space, so please don't do anything inappropriate. Everyone has friends of the opposite sex. I'm not going to stop making friends. If that's the case with him, then this answer shows that he's only superficially nice to you.
In fact, when we truly love someone, we all get jealous. When I see someone I like talking to someone of the opposite sex, I feel very unhappy. I get jealous when I like someone. When a person falls in love with another person, his possessiveness becomes stronger. He's strong, he just wants you to be his person and doesn't want to have anything to do with the opposite sex. No matter who the opposite sex is, he will be like this. As long as you come into contact with him, you are jealous.
2.What if your parents don't approve of us being together? Will you listen to them?
If you ask him if his parents don't approve of us being together, and he hesitates or listens to his parents, it means that he loves you and that you don't deserve to be with him. You don't deserve to be with him. I couldn't be happier. He doesn't love you that much and probably hasn't thought about being with you, so he doesn't think about whether his parents agree or not, he just plays with you, he doesn't think about the future, he doesn't have a plan, he doesn't fit to be with you, so get married.
If he really loves you, even if your parents are against it, he will find a way to get them to agree, make a good impression on them, and say nice things about you in front of them, I will say so. Sooner or later, his parents will agree to live with you. If there are any difficulties, we can solve them together. You worry that he will listen to his parents.
Men listen to their parents. First of all, this guy has no opinions of his own at all. Whether it's right or wrong, he listens to his parents. If you are with them, you will suffer a lot. Secondly, it shows that he doesn't care about you at all, and even if you are unhappy after marriage, he will not speak for you.
3. Since there is a quarrel, will you compromise first?
You can tell if you love him or not if you quarrel, but when I ask him, if we quarrel, will he compromise first? If he can do this, it means that he really loves you. If you quarrel or quarrel over some trivial matter, the first thing to do is to admit your mistakes. He will compromise first because he loves you. There is no need to argue about who won. If he doesn't love you, he'll say it's up to who's right and who's wrong, and if he's wrong, you'll have to compromise first. In fact, there is no one right or wrong in love, but if he loves you, he will admit his mistakes, even if it is his fault, and the person I love is the first person I bow my head.
Every couple who has been together for a long time will quarrel. In fact, the quarrel does not affect the feelings, but the attitude after the quarrel. After a fight, the relationship improves if one of the parties compromises first. If two people quarrel, if no one gives in to anyone, love will slowly fade away.
Love is actually very simple, but we often get caught up in it and don't know if we have loved it. Sometimes it's obvious, but we just make excuses for ourselves. Actually, if this person doesn't love you, then breaking up early is not the worst outcome for you. Because this person is not for you. Long-term pain is worse than short-term pain, so these three questions men ask are the ones you need to know. Reply.