Freshmen register, "inferiority complex" is natural, seniors This is the first class of college
Every year during the freshman season, a group of freshmen who have just entered the university will flood into the campus, showing a new scene in front of them. The campus environment and the warm care of the seniors all made these freshmen feel a sense of warmth. After the anticipation of the whole winter and summer vacation, college life is now coming as scheduled, and parents are also wearing the most beautiful clothes on this day to bid farewell to their children into the new semester.
The freshman who registered for the first time ushered in the guidance of the senior: "This is the first class of the university. "The four years of college are very important for students. Not only will they accumulate rich memories on campus, but they will also learn from the sea of expertise. When you enter university, everything is different from what you used to be, and students need to handle their academic affairs on their own like adults.
Xiao Lei is a new freshman who has successfully entered a university in another province with his excellent college entrance examination results. During the holidays, he contacted the seniors of the school early and joined the freshmen group and fellow villagers. These groups include not only student council members, but also teachers who are responsible for answering questions.
In the group, he met a senior from the same township, and the two became friends with each other. Because of his fellow villagers, the seniors often answer the questions raised by Xiao Lei. When asked what to pay attention to, the senior said something quite esoteric: "What do you feel inferior in the first class of university?" The senior then shared his own experience, when he first stepped into the university, he was like a frog at the bottom of a well. His hometown is a small county, and he hardly set foot in a big city until he went to high school. It wasn't until high school that he realized how small his hometown was, which made him yearn for a big city life. It was only when he got to college that he realized that there was a huge gap between himself and others.
At the beginning of his college career, the seniors had a deep understanding of the differences of their classmates. He came to school on a green train, while his classmates either took a plane or a high-speed train, and this gap made him feel inferior. In his opinion, flying is a luxury that can only be tried after work.
In the early months of college, seniors felt ashamed. His college clothes were all newly bought by his mother, and they looked a little outdated compared to the designer sportswear of his classmates.
When chatting with his classmates, he felt unable to interject. The classmates all went on a trip after the college entrance examination to share their travel experiences, while he helped his family work after the college entrance examination and spent his spare time learning English. Knowing the importance of college English, he did not excel in English in the county, so he prepared in advance.
The seniors later discovered that the disparities were not only reflected in the way they dressed and ate, but also in their mannerisms and interpersonal interactions. In the student council election, a classmate from a big city is full of self-confidence, but he not only lacks self-confidence, but also carries a heavy dialect. This made the seniors feel inferior, and they were even a little autistic at the beginning.
Gaps between college students are common and should not be led astray by low self-esteem. There is a gap between students due to their growth environment, parents' work, etc. Especially in universities, students from different regions have different habits and backgrounds. However, these disparities don't say anything, as everything college students have is given by their parents. In essence, there are no essential differences between college students. It would be a bit superficial to judge good or bad based on external material alone.
As long as you can enter the same class, it means that everyone is at a similar level. The material differences are something we can't change, so we choose to accept the status quo. Some college students may go astray during school due to excessive comparison and low self-esteem. It should be understood that admission to university is not an easy task, and if you deviate from the right track because of some trivial matters, it is really worth the loss.
Once in college, students need to adjust their mindset. Everything we have is given by our parents and is not worth comparing. After four years, everyone will choose a different path to leave campus. Therefore, during the university years, we should manage ourselves well, follow our own path, and don't always pay attention to the movements of others.
At the end of the day, college students should cherish these four years. At present, the employment prospects of college students are not optimistic, so they need to work hard to become excellent. We can't live up to the expectations and cultivation of our parents, and we can't live up to our efforts over the years. Hopefully, every college student will be proud of their choice when they graduate.
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