Dear friends, have you noticed that there are more and more single people around you?
Whether they are divorced or have never been married, they have always been single, as if they are never in a hurry to get married, and marriage is like a dispensability to them.
Especially some older single men and women, when it comes to blind dates, they seem to hate it, and their parents and relatives are also in a hurry, and they are sad day by day.
To do this, I interviewed a few single friends to hear what they thought.
I'm 35 years old and I've never been married. When I was in my twenties, I had a few relationships, most of which ended up without a problem, and I had already seen through men and marriage.
My parents have quarreled all their lives, they are very aggrieved and tired, and they say that they dare not divorce for me, so marriage is better for me.
Either find someone who is wholeheartedly devoted to me, or I'll be single for the rest of my life.
I have a well-paid job, I am independent and confident, I don't want to rely on others, and I don't want to find someone who is not as good as me.
Therefore, the object introduced by the seven aunts and eight aunts, I don't even have the idea of coping, let's talk about it myself, and I can't meet someone who is particularly satisfied, so I have been single.
Divorced for five years, living with a boy, having a car and a house, and wanting to find someone to marry under such conditions, do you say it is difficult?
Actually, it's quite difficult.
I don't know why women are so picky nowadays?
If you have never been married, you are divorced, you will have a bride price of more than 100,000 yuan, a car and a house, and you will dislike me for taking a boy into trouble.
Aren't you saying that marriage is just about getting by?
What happened to the second marriage? Is it inferior to have children?
If it weren't for the sake of living, I'd rather live alone with my children.
Those women who dislike me with children can't be together.
Those of us who are married for the second time with children want to find someone who is good to our children and live a down-to-earth life.
We've missed it once and can't be wrong again. I can't find the right person, I'd rather be alone.
At the age of twenty-eight, I was not married, and I was ready to be a "single aristocrat" for the rest of my life.
I was too naughty when I was in school and didn't study well;
After graduating from technical school, he has worked as a chef in a restaurant for many years, and no girl can look at it;
What about people, they are too honest and don't please girls, a boy like me, I'm afraid there is no hope of getting married in this life, right?
As the saying goes, people go to high places, and water flows to low places, and now girls, who doesn't want to find a rich and handsome?
They would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bike, that's the reality.
If I can start my life all over again, I will definitely study hard, find a good job, earn a lot of money, find a beloved, get married and have children as soon as possible, and live up to my parents' expectations.
Everyone wants to meet a good person, a couple for a lifetime, but unfortunately many times it always backfires.
Love is beautiful, marriage is very realistic, no matter what, please believe in yourself, you are good, you deserve the best.
Marriage is not the whole of life, first of all, you must love yourself well, when you are no longer inferior and cowardly, no longer afraid of loneliness, if you are well, it is a sunny day.