In this complex society, we are always undergoing various tests, and interpersonal relationships are as turbulent and changeable as a tide. If you want to stand in such an environment, you must remember an iron rule: don't show weakness in front of others, the weaker you are, the more others look down on you.
Don't be submissive
In daily work and life, concessions and compromises are inevitable. But remember that concessions and compromises are about solving problems better, not groveling to others. On the premise of not violating our own bottom line, it is our goal to maintain a balance between the interests of both parties. We don't need to give up our bottom line to proposals that have no substance or may be harmful to ourselves. Maintain a resilient attitude and not be submissive and lose your position in the workplace, so as to earn the respect of others.
Be a principled person
People like to pick soft persimmons and pinch them. If you always behave submissively and grovelly, others will perceive you as weak and bully you. Therefore, it is crucial to maintain your own principles. In those meaningless occasions, don't compromise too much so that others don't dare to bully you casually. A resilient attitude preserves your dignity and builds your image in others. In interpersonal interactions, a resilient attitude is more likely to elicit respect from others than excessive humility.
Techniques for maintaining principles
Know how to say no: When faced with unreasonable requests, do not hesitate to refuse. Protect your bottom line and don't carry too much in order to please others.
Act in moderation: Emphasizing one's own principles and positions while rejecting others. Don't deliberately emphasize the mistakes of the other party, so as not to hurt the dignity of others and protect your own rights and interests.
Establish communication: Timely communication can help each other better understand each other's position. Build consensus through communication, listen to each other while sticking to the bottom line, and seek a mutually acceptable solution.
Insist on yourself and respond positively
When you are looked down upon by others, do not feel inferior and frustrated. Instead, turn these negative emotions into motivation to respond positively to challenges. Maintain a confident and positive attitude and prove your worth through hard work. Don't try to change yourself to please everyone, you only need to please yourself. No matter what others think of you, believe in your own abilities and worth.
Conclusion
Straighten your back and face anyone with a positive and confident attitude. Be wise and firm in your interpersonal interactions. Dare to stand up for yourself, refuse excessive compromises, and dare to fight for your own rights. This is the key to successful relationships!